Fears and phobias

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Be-you-tiful86, May 29, 2009.

  1. fromrussiawithlove

    fromrussiawithlove New Member

    Oh my god, I actually would have died :(
    I've had slug induced panic attacks, how sad is that?! I honestly don't know what it is but they're terrifying!
     
  2. GFunk

    GFunk Well-Known Member

    Dying a slow death. Heights. Pitch black darkness.
     
  3. satyricon

    satyricon Guest

    Nothing.
     
  4. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    Not even death? Or spiders? Or incurable diseases?
     
  5. Arwen

    Arwen New Member

    Omg that pic almost made me vomit. Pls ppl, if u have some disgusting things to show, just post the links. Please. Have mercy.



    Btw. I'm scared of dark most of everything.
     
  6. Chandarah

    Chandarah New Member

    sharks
    water where u cannot see the ground
    and sometimes new social situation, when I donĀ“t know the social code
     
  7. satyricon

    satyricon Guest

    It makes no sense to be afraid of death as it is unavoidable. A few weeks ago I was driving past midnight in another city through a high crime area known for its murders and assaults. I thought that despite the fact that many people had been killed on those streets, there was no reason to assume death was any nearer than if I were driving through a posh area of Los Angeles. I even stopped for a (very large) slice of pizza. :)

    Spiders and other types of insects are unattractive, but that's just the aesthetic prejudice of a human being. There is no compelling reason to fear spiders, even those that can cause necrosis.

    We live in a society where medicine mitigates most of the incurable diseases. Although we can make unwise decisions (smoking, unprotected sex) that may lead to unsavory consequences, I try to know the odds and proceed accordingly.

     
  8. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    But what if it's a sloooooowwww agonizing death brought on by the bite of a killer spider and medicine was unable to cure it?? :p

    But, I do agree about death, no one can avoid it, so why be afraid of it?

    You have a healthy way of looking at things....
     
  9. FEHG

    FEHG Well-Known Member

    This thread topic seems familiar.
    Anyway...

    Fear is a choice. And I choose not to be afraid.
    The worst thing that can ever happen is you die, and so what?
    Depending on your belief, this is either a good thing, or you won't know about it anyway...:)

    Pick a fear, confront it, overcome it and then become a more resilient person.
     
  10. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    I'm afraid that somebody might find out what my biggest fear is.;)
     
  11. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    1. Birds
    2. People who don't blink
    3. Dolls-especailly Chuckie and Bob the Builder
    4. Clowns

    Yeah, I'm weird
     
  12. fromrussiawithlove

    fromrussiawithlove New Member

    That's not very weird, don't worry :p
    Clowns are terrifying. When I was little, one of my best friends had loads of clown dolls in her room. I could never sleep over, it was terrifying.
     
  13. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    Thanks. Birds creep me out, they could attack en masse and kill someone.
     
  14. JordanC

    JordanC Well-Known Member

    Another bird fearer. People make fun of me hating birds but no one ever said fears were supposed to be rational. ;) Nobody asks me to watch their pet birds either. Answer is a definite no.
     
  15. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    :smt104 :smt017

    LOL. That's a new one! I must know why. :D
     
  16. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    Bob the Builder is a friendlier version of Chuckie, plus he comes with his own set of tools that could be used to kill someone.
     
  17. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    LOL! Okay, fair enough. Thanks for the explanation. :smt023
     
  18. Brittney

    Brittney Well-Known Member

    Dolls can creep me out too and some clowns, depending.
     
  19. alli

    alli New Member

    I am scared of heights. My biggest fear is bridges. I shudder every.single.time I go over a bridge, no matter how many times I've been across it before. I've always had a slight fear of bridges but once I had children I spent too much time thinking about how on earth I would get them out of car seats and to the surface should I experience a bridge collapse.
     
  20. kuntrygirl30

    kuntrygirl30 New Member

    I share your fear.
     

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