What's going on with you?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by suprchic73, Jul 28, 2008.

  1. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member


    Congrats!That's a great price to win
     
  2. Persephone

    Persephone New Member

    Seriously, hon...when he is NOT there, go to your sister and tell her that if she doesn't get away from him she's a dumb cunt. And I don't use that word lightly.

    I understand where she's coming from, because it's hard to leave an abusive relationship regardless of how horrible it seems from the outside, but she needs to leave. Now. She's allowing this to happen, and she's allowing her child's life to be in danger.

    And yes, she DOES need therapy, because when a woman gets so beaten down that she takes this sort of shit from a man then she's about half mental already. Therapy might actually empower her enough to leave. I know it worked for me.
     
  3. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    Awww I can think of one fellow Ozzie Sista you could take... LOL..... Congratulations though Fehg,,,,,,,, now go and buy a Lotto Ticket for next Tuesday,,,,, $20 million I hear............
     
  4. Persephone

    Persephone New Member

    Ahem. I have a pretty free calendar! hint hint.

    haha, congrats
     
  5. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    I clearly spent too much time out in the sun this morning,,,,other than the patches of red on my skin from the sun (I don't tan, I burn then go back to white),,, I also now feel dehydrated............. :rolleyes:
     
  6. Persephone

    Persephone New Member

    Poor dear. My skin does the same crap >.< Get some aloe vera, that should help.
     
  7. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    Thanks DH, I will ~ I call my skin the 'glow in the dark' kind..... lol
     
  8. Persephone

    Persephone New Member


    Haha, I glow in the dark too, so I feel ya! Once, before I moved to Houston, I wore shorts to my homie's apartment. He just stared, laughed, and told me my legs looked radioactive they were so pale.

    But it's all good, the boys seem to love it ;) So we good baby!
     
  9. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    hahahaha I had something similar happen to me at a party when I was wearing a skirt....
     
  10. Persephone

    Persephone New Member

    In other news...I really like my new boy. A lot. I mean, hell, I -was- crushing on him for a while...like...I kinda crushed on him even when I was with my ex. lol

    He's just soooo sweet. And funny as hell. And dorky, but in a cute way. And he has pretty hair :D :D :D

    Tonight was awesome. My cell got cut off cause I didn't have the money to pay it, so he's insisting that he help me with it since he did just get paid today...so we went to go take care of that but the place had just closed, so instead we went to Wal-mart since I needed some shampoo...

    Then we spent like two hours just playing with the toys. We got into a lightsaber fight in the toy aisle. Because we're awesome and silly like that. Then he took me to dinner, and we went back to his place to watch a dvd he got at wal-mart. Now we're at my place and he's sleeping. Even his little snores are cute. haha

    It's kinda strange to be dating another artist, though. I've yet to have that experience until now. It was kinda one of the things that attracted me to him, though. It's no secret that artists tend to be strange, and it's interesting to have someone I'm with actually get that side of me. I likes it. Plus he waxes poetic with his cheesy lil lines and it's really cute. :D

    :smt054
     
  11. Persephone

    Persephone New Member

    Pale legs + skirt = sexy as hell :D And don't let no one tell you any different! Besides, we make gorgeous contrast when we're all hugging up with dark guys. C'est magnifique :D
     
  12. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    Oh Dh it sounds like there is the sweet sound of love on its way for you with this one. :smt023 I am happy for you, someone who wants to take care of you by the sounds of things, and why not let him,,,, you deserve it......
     
  13. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    I did once tell her that it's in her power to leave him or keep letting him disrespect her which means she's also responsible for her own misery.I didn't wanna say dumb but she needs to understand she is victimizing herself while she can basically just make it stop by leaving him alone
     
  14. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member

    I am packing ARRGHHHH!

    How did I get so much stuff? I have only been here for 10 months.

    Putting all my stuff at a friends place as I am not sure if I will return next year. If I don't she can ship it to me. (yes of course I will leave money to cover the costs lol) I don't want to drag it all home if I do decide to return.

    Then off to Israel tonight! Yeah. Only 22 days there, but it will still be great. Then a long a@# flight and back on North American soil! Yahoo!

    I can hardly wait for a cold beer and a backyard bbq!

    Now..........if I could just fit all this useless stuff into boxes :confused:
     
  15. Persephone

    Persephone New Member

    Come to Texas, we know beer and bbq like nobody else down here! :D

    Have a safe trip Neller!! But most of all...have fun!
     
  16. Persephone

    Persephone New Member

    We don't always wanna speak the truth, but sometimes it's needed. Dear, it -is- dumb for her to stay. Very dumb. She's aware of the situation, she's aware of the danger posed to her own and her child's mental health.

    I was in a very bad relationship before with my ex husband. It took counseling and my friends pointing out how stupid I was being for staying with him to get out. I've never been happier since. If I would've had kids I might've even got out sooner. Tell her to stop being selfish and think about what's best for her child. Otherwise that child needs to be placed in a home where the baby has a better chance at growing up happy, healthy, and with food and diapers. Not with that piss poor excuse of a sperm donor.
     
  17. Persephone

    Persephone New Member

    Oh baby, he got up and made me breakfast this morning. :D :D :D I woke up when he put a plate of eggs on my tummy and poked me in the nose. lol

    It's weird people wanting to take care of me though. I've always been used to taking care of myself, so all this stuff is strange. Lovely, but strange. lol It doesn't help that I'm 4 years older than him, so that makes it even weirder. lol

    I'm making him do a photoshoot with me after he gets out of class today. So I can show him off :D He's got such a nice smile, cause he's got some real purty lips. haha I get butterflies when he kisses me. lol

    He gave me 80 bucks for my phone. I was like "Are you suuuuure you're ok without this? You don't need groceries or anything?" He was like "pfft. You know what I'd buy with this? Video games. And then I'd get all distracted and not do my homework and fail my classes and get kicked out of school. So instead I'll help you get your phone back on so you can distract me instead."

    So cute.
     
  18. Athena

    Athena New Member

    Mmmm, lovely. :smt060
     
  19. fromrussiawithlove

    fromrussiawithlove New Member


    Aw, DH, he sounds wonderful :heart:
    I'm so glad for you, you need a good guy with a decent heart! You deserve someone nice.

    Mine isn't quite on the breakfast in bed level but he did turn up with a tub of Ben and Jerrys yesterday because he felt bad for laughing when my team lost in the champions league, haha.
     
  20. Persephone

    Persephone New Member

    His heart is his sexiest feature. :D :D He's super sweet. Even when we were just friends he was always lookin' out for me. He was always opening doors for me and I kept asking "Why you do that for?". Apparently he just likes being polite. lol And he was there for me more than my ex was through my whole pregnancy and miscarriage. I think a good foundation for a relationship is a strong friendship, and we got that. Now we're friends who kiss and cuddle. lol And it's nice. :D

    And that's sweet! Tell him you want eggs now. lol
     

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