Why do ex-boyfriends call?

I have a 100% return rate on men I've dated and ex bfs calling. It doesn't matter if I broke up with them or they broke up with me. My highest call volume is typically during the holidays, although there have been several in the past two weeks. Last week, I heard from a man I fell head over heels for last year, just when it seemed like I'd completely wiped him from my mind. Now I'm tripped up thinking about him again.

Why do men call, even when it's long over?!

 

'Cos you're da bomb?:smt102

 

It is the quality of that relationship that keeps them coming back. It's hard to find a truly good woman in these times. When a man finds one or realize what he lost when the relationship is over he comes back to the one who treated him with respect, was that person who had an ear to his troubles and in many cases served as that surrogate mother and sister to him. Now lets not forget the sex. She may be the only one who has truly served his needs and made him feel like a man. If she is one of those intriguing women who challenges a man's masculinity then men will always come back to her like kittens to a litter. We men hunger for love and affection despite the strong image we set forth. Such is the power of a woman. That is why men fight like hell to get that ideal woman.

 

Sometimes it's because they still have feelings for you, sometimes it's because they want to get laid.

 

im with russia on that one, ive currently got 4 exes callin me, 2 who im damn sure just wanna get laid and the other 2 looking for a way back, one who's reached stalker potential

 

Either You:

-are a mature & sweet person and your relationships ended without alot of drama which makes its easy to go back to

-make a great friend

-Other than your pretty face, theres something physically rare & appealing about you that you havent shown us or arent telling us about. I wont get graphic.

-all of the above

 

Would you honestly keep calling an ex just to be friends with her? Just out of curiosity.

 

I would imagine someone going through a tough time doing that. Especially if they remember their ex as a source of comfort.

 

Because we like p____y, and when you know of a good one, you don't forget it, regardless of relationship status.

In a moment of weakness a man will recall how it was and wonder how it would be again.

If women don't realize this they don't understand the nature of men.

 

Wow! Dang...

 

Yeah, I honestly think it's as simple as that. Men really aren't that complicated :smt102

 

Most don't.

 

Thanks for the replies! My opinion prior to posting was that usually, the calls are p____y related. Every once in a while a man may crack and go on about how he was wrong, misses me, etc. I was wondering if there was some hidden male secret I wasn't understanding. I keep forgetting that with many men, the simplest reason is usually the correct one.

 

That's the first thing that came to my mind. Men go back to exes simply for the sex....(in most cases).

 

Well, CS, look at your pic. Obviously these men just can't let go. I don't know if I blame them.

 

Or, look at her rate of return. She obviously knows how rock a man's world enough to give them total recall in those moments of weakness mentioned earlier. I mean, a pretty face is nice, but I don't think that's what has men seeking booty calls from old girlfriends in the middle of the night.

 

Sir, I couldn't reply to your REP because I gave u too much lately. Anyways, I wouldn't have used my powers even if I had them, I guess, but I do think that telling "loser" to somebody just because he/her doesn't share your opinion is bad.

Sorry Bean, had to lend your thread for a bit

 

men are more simple than ants

 

To be honest, I tend to stay in touch with exes if I think there might be a chance for a cosy sexual reunion in the future. Otherwise, I can take it or leave it. So I am guessing it would probably be the same for guys.

 

and at ridiculous times too!!
It's the 4am drunken calls that I could do without also!!! Actually it's all of the drunken calls from ex's that I could do without.......................