Who is poisoning the water?

I agree with everything you said here Bookie. You're totally right. This forum is all about cycles. People come, you get used to them, they leave. Then they return briefly. Then are gone again. It's just how the forum has always been. There are plenty of posters who i honestly thought, would never stop posting here, but did. Now i know it has to be expected. A year or two from now, there will only be a few of us remaining who post regularly. It's a sad truth, but life on the forum will live on as it always has.

 

I haven't thought about leaving. Hasn't crossed mind. I got upset (agitated) when some rumors started about me and my family but it's cool now. I try not to sweat the small stuff. I'm recently new to the site and I like the site a lot. It's almost becoming addictive like my facebook or myspace because I check it so regularly. People come and go and it is sad. Hopefully with the people who left, everything is going good for them. I wish them the best of luck. Just as long as people don't mess with me, my family, or my money, I'm cool.

 

I couldn't agree with you more. I go thru spells and get burned out. Sometimes, it seems the threads get boring. I get tired when it's troll season and repetitively reading about 'bottom of the barrel white women.' I swear that with some of the men on here that I don't think that there is a white woman good enough to be seen with them. LOL Then, sometimes the real world takes precident over our fun on here. Regardless, I always end up coming back at some point. It's hard to stay away with such great posters around. :smt023

 

Well some of us black men love you white women just fine.

 

Baby, I assure you that I wasn't referring to you. I know that you love all types of white women, and I promise you that we love you too. :smt008

 

"You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to GirlieGirl74 again."

 

She's awesome isn't she.....

 

Thanks guys!!! I made good choices on my 'shag' list. :smt058

 

How about you me and Sonny make an Oreo cookie. :smt058

 

Tell me when and where, baby. I have several dirty come backs for this, but I'm trying to refrain. I'll just have to save it for off board discussion.

 

Do you flirt like this in real-life? If so, how are you NOT dating/married to someone yet?
You could be a romance writer. :smt081

 

I really should go too, I've had almost 2000 posts and I've been here less than a year... that's a bit sad, isn't it? :smt085

 

Nah, it just means you're a fast typer. :smt023

 

I was thinking the same thing about me, LOL.

 

No, it's not. We love you being around this board. I personally enjoy your wit and the fact that you're...by the way, what's the British slang word for "hottie"?

 

Fit.

And yes, I too enjoy her presence.

 

Answer to the OP: http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?t=10924&page=18

 

Exactly. :smt023

 

Should i stay or should i go nooowww....

Arch,

I am new to this forum, but i already kiiinda've know what is the issue here.

Although i am doing my best searching through the site, I find difficult to understand what are you guys all about.

What is that active members of this forum hope to accomplish by being here?

I believe the absence of a purpose is what make people loose interest and leave. The reason they leave is actually the non existence of a good reason to stay.

How long can you make random conversation with anonymous people whom you know nothing about and probably never will?

Maybe instead of searching on my own for this purpose, i should open a new thread and just asked the other senior members what is the reason for them being here.

If they can clarify that for me, i'll have a reason to stay.

I will do that in a few days because i got to many people mad at me and fired up with an early controversial post.

I'll ask the question because I really want to be here.

 

I don't hope to accomplish anything by being here other than sharing a piece of mind.

I participate in forums that are relevant to my interests.

I don't do so with the intent of gaining anything other than some various knowledge and entertainment.

Anything more isn't preconceived.