Which one though.. that is a dillemmma! and wouldnt that be quite uncomfortable on that soapbox? Just asking
did you think i was holding my breath...i was just getting my popcorn ready to see how many volunteers our new fly was going to get
Okay, as long as you and the other participant maintain contact on the soapbox with both feet or both hands at all times. (Your feet, his hands; his feet, your hands; both of ya'lls feet; both of ya'lls hands).
Agreed. Women want sex just as much as men do (even more, I think). They just don't want to be judged (by the general population, men or most importantly, other women) for it. So, they put a label on the "type" of sex it is i.e. meaningful, emotional, in a relationship etc. That's just it. Men DON'T have to use ideas and lines to get women into bed although they think they do. (Hint: In many cases, she already wants to go.) It's a sad time when sex between men and women is seen as one "conning" the other to do it. But I know where you're coming from if you're talking about a guy lying to get you into bed. Call him out on it. "Hey, if you want to have sex, that's fine. But you don't have to lie. We're both adults." Or some variation of, "I'm not looking for a one night stand." I've been working on saying what I mean and having the decency to give her the choice in the first place. Sometimes I'm surprised to find that she wants the same thing that I want anyway. If she doesn't, then I simply move on with no hard feelings and certainly no "conning" involved.
That's right man. You see some fat ugly ass white women who think that can get good lookin black dudes. And half the time they can because some brothers are so desperate.