You just made me laugh... I remembered the episode from MadTV's Gay Gansgsta Fight: "What kind of kung fu move involves one man sticking his face in another man's JUNK???"
O.O The white guys that I've been with would NEVER have shared me. They was a bit possessive over me. I dont even think they asked me if I had been with a black man. I've had a couple black friends that said they would want to share me as long as they could have a piece of me. lol Sounds funny but its true.
absolutely not. i am definitely not gonna share my lady (if i had one) i will admit i am a little jealous but the healthy jealous. i know relationships get a little drab but you have to have some morals
I think a lot of it is just wanting to see their fantasies played out in fornt of them......live porn if you will.
:smt006I might do it and dump him after. :smt006 Then tell him it was so good that I left him for the BM!
Well, I am not going to lie, I've done this before. I was a football player for a well know college and one of the alumnis approached me about it. His wife had saw me and became attracted to me. I liked it actually. The wife was passionate in bed. It became a problem when we started having sex without him watching. She was more comfortable with just the two of us and you could tell the way she responded to certain things in bed. She would do things that she wouldn't do with him watching.
Although I'm single now,I myself would never share my lady with anyone. Whenever you bring a third party into a relationship, then you are courting disaster. Bringing in a third party is not limited to sexual thing, it can be friends and family all in your business. Take it from me someone always ends up feeling left out and hurt and the majority of times these things do not end well. But to each his own.
So you didn't feel like this couple was only using you like a human dildo? And would you do it again? I too have been approached by such couples, and even begged by the wife, who said she never had a BM before, and thus wanted me to be the first one to ravage her, but it just didn't feel right, so I never went for it. I'm not judging anyone who does this, because different strokes for different folks. :smile:
Ok, I'm not a woman, but what kind of person who I be like stealing or having sex with another man's girlfriend or wife? I don't roll like that.
My take! I'm a white male who was married to a woman who enjoyed making love to black men and WANTED me to watch. I found, surprisingly enough not just BECAUSE he was black, that I loved watching the woman I loved pleased in ways she wanted to be. She nearly always, with a few exceptions, wanted me to make love to her afterwards and our love life continued to get better and better. I just found it a huge turn-on, for whatever reason, and never considered the "cuckold" implications. We ended up splitting for other reasons. Our "black" friends have remained so, for both of us, and not one ever implicated us in any way in any "socio-economic-racially motivated" motivational bullshit. It was always just a preference and one that everyone involved truly enjoyed. Psychoanalyze me if you will, I just enjoyed the hell out of it. She still calls when one of our friends is going to visit... YES!!!
It's exactly shit like this that gives BM/WW relationships a bad rap and not taken serious. A mentality like this that makes people think that BM/WW relationships are nothing more than a fetish.
I'm not saying that you're "socio-economic-racially motivated" like you put it and it's you're life and I can't judge but I think you and you're wife are using that guy, now if he's ok with it fine but I still think you're somewhat disrespectful. Somehow I feel the same, idk if I'm right or not.
I have. I met a man online (never in person). He was into that and other animal life forms ..........EWWW. I did not talk to him for long after he told me that! It gives new meaning to the 10 second rule.
rtguy53, honestly, I don't see the problem with u guys doing it if u both liked it. I think that sometimes people on this board can become a bit too judgemental. U didn't hurt nobody, and your black friend liked it too. So what's the problem, ppl? tony... Love the pic
