That's exactly how I am. In a relationship = sex fiend, no relationship = meh I've got other things to think about.
Not really - its simple if you think about it (warning - general statement): Women tend to have sex w men we have an emotional attachment to(feelings-->sex). Men do the opposite - have sex and THEN get emotionally attached (sex-->feelings). If we are not emotionally attached, for many of us at least - there is no reason sort of speak to have sex. If Im in to you - YOU are then my afrodiciac (sp?) and Ill do you all day long (and night). But I dont regularly get sexually aroused if I dont have that emotional connection with anybody - I can take care of it myself if I need to - Im not going to go out there and find a walking/taking dildo - its not for me and too much hassle!! But trust me, that does not mean Iwe are frigid - nah! Me and my man, probably have sex a MINIMUM of twice/day.
Correction: men (at least this one), can have sex with emotion, without emotion, faked emotion, locomotion, slow-motion,...
A lot of generalizations there. For every statement you used 'we' or referred to women as a whole, I can tell you of personal experience(s) where that statement is not true. For every man that's having sex with a woman he just met at a club, there's a woman having sex with a man she just met at a club.
Also, just because a man or woman may tell you she does or doesn't do something, doesn't mean it's true.
Many ww(primarily the fat ones) DO think that they can get better black dudes,dating black men,than they can get better white dudes,dating white men. Black mens low standards just fuel false preconceived notions and allow these females to think that they can get any black dude because the color of their skin and the fact that they are "thick"(fat) and they think all black men like that shit.
You completely miss-read my statement I used the word "tend" - and thus I never said that there arent women that do "one nigfht stands" etc - why would I say that - Im not that naive., it happens a lot - but not more than women sleeping with men they have an emotional attachment to - That is why I used the word "tend".
Well, we are going to have to dissagree then because if that was the case, men wouldnt have to come up with all the ideas and lines etc to get a woman in bed. That is well know phenomenon u say does not exist then... becasue if it is just as common for women to have the intention of emotionless sex, then that would not be needed. Of course for every man that goes home with a woman with the intention of having a one night stand - there is a woman going with him - how many of those acctually realizes its meaningless sex - U say 100% - I say BS. A LOT of these women, think it will be more than meaningelsss sex - come on now. We (,en and women) are _in general_ (not all of us, but most) wired differently and that has been reaseached and written about ad nauseum, but I guess you think they are all wrong. I acctually think you are just baiting me
Giggle, Im saying that in general, women _tend_ to be emotionally attached before sex and men the other way around, _in general_. We can get pretty googly eyed over a guy fairly soon if he say the right stuff (at least when we are younger). I fell for that trap myself a couple of times in my early 20s. I dont think women have the same propensity as men to _intentionally_ have emotionless sex - if we did - men wouldnt have to go through elaborate efforts to get us in bed. Sure, we do have emotionless meaningless sex and one night stands, Im just saying that we dont do it to the same extent as men do as somebody said.. We might even suppress that nagging feeling that the guy does not mean what he is saying and still desperately want to be something more although we deep down inside know it aint so. Many of us have been there, waiting for that call that will never come. Im sure there are more men than women on this site that willingly will admitt they "conned" someone from the other sex to go home with them. Im not passing judgement here, I dont care, Ive done it-both ways- it just "is".. and admittingly, from my misstakes, I have learend a lot of valuable lessons.... Man HOW did I get this longwinded - how do I get down from this soapbox