What values do you look for in a guy/girl?

^^ Topic.

(example, someone able to provide, has lots of money, sense of humor, respects his mom, traditional, old fashioned, modern minded, able to cook stuff like that)

 

Firstly I want a girl who is fiercly loyal. I have been loyal to every girl I was with, and I believe loyalty the biggest thing in a relationship.
I like a girl to have similar or kinda similar tastes as me. It's easier to talk to her that way. I want my girl to be as weird as I am.
I like a girl to be thicker. I don't want skinny. I want boobs. I want curves. I want butt.
There's more but I post it when I think of it.

 

That's the second time I've seen you say this. So now I want to ask why are you weird?

 

Women that exhibit some unique talent that few others have tend to stand out for me. Be it of a vocational or artistic nature, talented women are very attractive.

Of course she has to be smart, but also wise; understanding the difference between intellectual brilliance and wisdom is a huge plus.

Women who are less traditional stand out as well. I've dated two women who were more traditional in terms of how they conceived gender and domestic roles. One watched The Food Channel and was a real gourmand in the kitchen, but that didn't impress me. If you can cook, so can I. Show me something that I can't do.

Women who don't have to consult with their horoscope, Oprah, Jesus Christ, or anyone else for that matter before making a decision are a rare breed. Independence is quite sexy.

Actually liking sex rather than seeing it as an obligation is sexy too.

 

A man that would return the loyalty, respect and faithfulness that I would give him..................................

 

Someone who is more like myself than I am. Someone who makes me want to be a better person. Someone I can respect.
Someone who doesn't have to be with me (or anyone), but desires to be.

If you think about it - this is a catch-all.

 

I feel that.

 

I feel what you saying. I pretty much agree with everything aside from the weird part.

 

I can't explain it. I'm just different from everybody else. I have my own tastes, and my own way of thinking.

 

Oh. Fine.

 

It doesn't mean your weird it means your original.
Unless you have women trapped in your basement then you might be weird.

 

i agree loyalty is very important. in fact its the most important aspect for me. followed by her having brains and similar interest as me but she doesn't necessarily have to have all the sames interest and views as i do. i think contrast in views and opinions can make for dynamic chemistry and you can grow and learn from one another. next for me would be looks, yeah i'm a little shallow now, because i thought that if i disregarded looks for personality, I'd fair better but no! gentleman,.. ugly and chubby girls can be just as smug and selfish, so go for the best. her requirements : nice face, long hair ( i love long hair) at least a c cup thin waist and a round jiggly ass. perfection :smt109

 

I agree somewhat. She doesn't have to butt ugly but she doesn't have to be Jesikah Maximus. As long as she upkeeps herself, maintains a good body, and not hideous in the face personality always comes first.

 

I'd like a man that loves me back as I love him, that can make me smile and that can help me in the bad moments. I want a man that wants a family. I want a man that keep his promises.



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Hmmm. Loyalty, and all that stuff. Doesn't trip over silly shit. I'm a person who lets shit go damn near all the time, and doesn't try to fight every little thing. Fighting just isn't worth it usually. So I want somebody who can just go with the flow at times.

Someone who has their own taste in music. BIG ups if they like hip-hop. If they have their own other taste in other music that shows that they actually try to find quality music, rather than just listening to that top 40 shit, that's good. I want to have actual conversations about music and know what kinda of music they like. I don't want to find a bunch of "now that's what I call music" compilations. I'm open to other kinds of music, as long as it's good. I'm starting to get into J-pop and J-rock. Pretty much, musical tastes outside of the radio, and viacom.

Other stuff.....kinda nerdy, unique. And I mean REALLY unique. I love girls who are pretty different. The stuff they like. The music they like. The way they dress(think the Janis Ian chick from mean girls. Clothes like those. HOT DAMN!!).

Not gonna go into details physically. I've stated it like 5 times on this site, and I'm not hella picky, so it would take days to type all of the different descriptions of physical attributes I like.

And some other stuff, I think...

 

The traits I most admire in a woman are compassion and a sense of humor/cheerfulness. I like women who are humble.

 

Co-sign.Respect and loyalty are the basis of any relationship.Trust is fundamental - if one is incapable of loyalty, a relationship with him/she is a lose-only situation and should be avoided.