What Type of WW do WW THINK BM Like??

Ok so from the other thread.....

A couple of us said that once upon a time we had the thought "well maybe we weren't the 'type' that a black man would like"

What type of white women do white women think black men like? Or what types of ww have you thought they would like?

Maybe when you first found yourself interested/attracted to black men. Or maybe from impressions now, or from this board.


(there you go Intrigue! I'm sure I'm waaaay past my quota!)

 

i think bm like ww that wear red sweaters on monday:smt043(i couldn't resist)

 

When I was pretty young (not yet in my teens) I used to think it was big bleached blonde women. :smt042
Then I started seeing different sizes and hair colors.

 

Nah, I like my white woman sweaterless on Mondays':smt043

 

I like drama-free ww

and of course...... wait for it

PRETTY FEET

 

Family, y'all funny...but GZ definitely speaks for me.

Thanks K for starting this this thread. This topic truly 'Intrigues' me.

Some of you may remember one of the first threads I started (damn, I can't quite remember either), something about not being able to meet WW outside of work.

Well, I often think, "what is she thinking", "Is she attracted to me?", "Do I scare her?", "Did she just call me a n!gg@ (sorry, I thought that would be funny:smt081)?"

K and I have talked about this before; I'm personally attracted to women who are the exact opposite of me, meaning str8, Wonder Bread, Soccer-Mom, Suburbia WW.

However, when you see a BM, what do you think he likes? Why would you think he wouldn't like you?

 

I think my man feels the same way because him and I are pretty "opposite" too. Yin and Yang.

 

K, you're so funny!

i think this is a great thread...but a very broad topic. as much as i've heard people in the past say that there isn't a 'type', i think we all stereotype which bm we believe are into ww, and which ww we think are into bm, and who's attracted to who, and so on and so on. almost everyone on here has got preconceived ideas (i don't care what anybody says) of those 'types'. from my own personal experience...most of the bm/ww couples i've seen, consist of very short, thick to extra-thick, fair-skinned white women, with over-dyed hair...usually average in looks, but cute girls - not society's idea of model material, but not repulsive. sorry if that sounds harsh, but you get my drift? there are definitely exceptions to every rule though. i've seen bm with very athletic type ww too...some with very tiny, petite ww - it depends on the dude. i really think location has alot to do with it too...in this area (north central FL), it's mainly the fair-skinned, chubby girls. but if you go to other parts of the country, or even state, i'm sure you'd find something else to be the norm. either way, i'm not hatin. my husband is from virginia, but i'm a florida girl - born and raised. he's not into the north central fl stereotype that i described...although i am pretty fair-skinned, ha!

every man is different though...and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. that's my two-cents.

 

Int, this is exactly why I used to think that a BM would not be interested in me because I'm so white bread, str8 kinda WW. At least not interested in anything serious and long term. Funny.

 

Well how about: "You don't look like a woman who would date a black man"

 

Ahhh, my dear Athena, if you only knew. There are many bruthas like myself who are attracted to that 'type'. I think that because we're (my type vs. Ms. White-Bread) so opposite, we probably both think neither would be interested.

I know when I see a woman like that, I don't really have the ballz to say anything to her. I figure she's part of the 'mainstream' and has negative perceptions about me, so "why bother"...that kinda sux because I really do think opposites attract and there are some people missing out on some potential mates.

So to my "suburban white-bread" ladies, if you see an 'Urban-Gent' that appeals to you...give that brutha the 'google-eyes' or sumthin'...let him know you're interested.:smt005

 

Good to know. :shock: << google eyes

 

I'm not gonna lie, I've said that to women before....however, that's the type I like.

 

I am not sure I know exactly what kind of WW I am into. It's fluctuactes all the time. Women always have that little something about them that you're going to like even if they aren't exactly your type.

I remember one time in the summer of 1994, I was staying a my cousin's place in Louisville, Kentucky and two girls from his school, the University of Louisville came to pay him a visit. They were both stunning. We all sat in the living room and they were mostly talking with my cousin and paying very little attention to me. So I felt a little left out and in a impulse to pretend that I was busy doing something else anyways, I picked up one of the many books my cousin had on his coffee table and pretended like I was reading it.

I didn't even conversate with the two girls and the talk was limited to a brief "Where are you from, you have an accent" and the superficial "Bye, it was nice meeting you" coming from them when they left. But a few weeks later, when I was already back in Columbus, Ohio, my cousin informed me that one of the girl, Jennifer, had asked about me. Then he informed me that she thought I was "handsome" but totally unfriendly and wondered if I was the type of black guy who disliked white girls.

Why she got that impression?

1. The book I picked up and pretended to read happened to be titled MESSAGE TO THE BLACKMAN IN AMERICA by Elijah Muhammad :shock:

2. According to both girls, I was being aloof, never smiled to them once the whole time they were there.(I am not a native speaker of English, I didn't even know what aloof meant)

3. I was freon-faced and I seemed irritated when the one named Kyara asked me where I was from and I barely acknowledged them when they said goobye.

Apparently being pathologically shy can give even some of prettiest girls the impression that you're totally indifferent to them, because I was too nervous to say anything and the book wasn't even mine and I could barely speak or understand English at the time!

More rencently, last year, during French Lunch, something we used to have every Saturday at noon where all the Francophones of the Myspace International deparment brought all sorts of French food and dishes, I went on entertaining tirade about Beyonce etc, how I thought that Jay-Lo deserved her own statue for the worshipers because she made the booty more mainstream, about "bushmen" women having huge booties in Southern Africa and blabla.

The guys were laughing and even some of the girls. But an African girl from the Ivory-Coast came a few days later to tell me that a girl from Ukraine who works with us and was also there, thought I was shallow because I only cared about "big booties" and had asked her if I wasn't attracted to white girls and would only go out with African American women for these reasons etc. I was like WTF? Does the term "context" mean anything? I was only trying to funny during French Lunch.

The Ukrainian girl and I had finally a chance to discuss this during our regular lunch time because she brought up by asking me about my preferences etc, talking about how she was fit and slender because she used to do so much track & field back home in her city,etc, about her genes not making her prone to gain weight so easily etc. I had some explaining to do. Then I wondered why would she care about another man's preference and taste in bootie if she already had a boyfriend?

Let's just say that I am very good at giving WW the impression that I am the kind of black man who will not be interested in them. It happens all the time with most girls. Maybe I should smile more often and stop watching Louis Farrakhan sermon's at work on Youtube...or trying to be more social and just stop looking at them with that cold, reptilian look. But hey, I have an irrational fear of women, so what can I do really?

 

white women(especially the fat ones) think Black men like fat white women.Big,Bbw's,or whatever you want to clam him.

 

o really?

 

I got your suburban, soccer mom right here, baby.

When I was 20, young and naive, I assumed that black men only went for white women who were, uh, "larger than average", and overtly sexual.

Recently I read "Why Black Men Love White Women" and that book really messed with my head. It made things so much more complicated than "boy meets girl".

 

Man why do you come here and f*ck up a nice thread?

 

Wow...it appears that Ive rubbed off on you. rayer:

 

You know, he's just become a pain in the ass who has waaaay too much time on his hands. :smt043