Do you only date opposite color? Why?

If that’s what you feel. As I stated in my previous post, “I merely replied to your comments when you quoted me.” Its just common courtesy which is why, I stated “Nothing more, nothing less.”

Fair enough!

I’ve seen technical oriented topics sway the wrong way when one tends to have a little fun, while the other party did not get the punch line. So, when in doubt I ask.

This is what I wrote;

As you can see, I did not exclude myself of the “walking emotions” syndrome. Despite those who would class the term ‘walking emotions” as a form of negativity, I consider such traits a positive for, it enables the person to express their thoughts more fluently.

Using myself as an example, it gives me the ability to determine whom I am most compatible with, in addition to how the relationship should progress, under long-term conditions, when dating. This is also beneficial for the girl as well. There is no need to waste her time going through a long winding process to conclude I am not the type of guy she is looking for.

I understand. I took the liberty to eliminate the small talk you expressed as well.

I can’t say I will be very prompt with my replies, but I will try to partake in your thread entitled “More Emotional?”

Cheers!

 

:smt036 hey, that's the same than what i am getting .. you really described the white guys that are in to me to a tick and i am just not into them and can anyone blame me (us)?
and the middle eastern guys, same again.
but sometimes i also get these really young guys - both white and asian - that are about the age of my youngest son... :smt101
i am so glad that BM fancy me too ... and i must say i wouldn't say i'd never date white men again but i certainly prefer BM!

 

I only date black men.

Why? Because I am strong an I know what I want at this point in my life,

 

i actually used to not consider dating black men, but then after my first time with one i have only dated black men since. (lol I only been with 2 so far)... but it took me a while to realize or admit to myself that i am most attracted to black men.

 

LOL! That was funny!

I'm 5'11" btw.

 

bosoxlady where in mass. do u live eastern mass?, i used to live in western mass near springfiled a few years ago

 

I can say that it's the same thing for me,
But I'm attracted to women of opposite races than mine.But I don't hate black women, I find them sexy, but I prefer by far white chicks.Only white women can catch my eyes. I have never dated black girls.

 

Personally, I must say I think that Complex is fricken awesome. Just had to point that out.

When single I typically date black guys, mostly leaning toward the darker end of the spectrum. I was married to a white guy before, though. But see, there are only white men where I'm from, and I've always been more attracted to people with darker skintones than me. It's not that I simply say "Oh, he MUST be dark or else he has no chance with me"...it's just attraction. Some men typically date redheads, or blondes, or girls with blue eyes, etc. But you don't find arguments about how it's so wrong and rude to girls without blue eyes if a man tends to not go for girls with brown eyes.

There's nothing wrong with accepting what you're attracted to. The only problem comes when you take the ones you aren't attracted to and decide to make ridiculous, rude comments about them simply because you aren't personally into them. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean someone else doesn't, and belittling people you find unattractive is just plain mean.

I've went out with men who are black, dark and light skinned. White men. Hispanic. I even went out with a lovely Pakistani fella once. To me it's more about who they are as a person. It doesn't hurt if the man in question is dark, however, because I think there is nothing more beautiful than a man with lovely dark skin and gorgeous, juicy lips, but there are nice guys and assholes of every race and skin colour. Limiting myself to only one means I have less of a chance of finding a nice man who'd treat me well, because a dark skinned man may just as well treat me like shit where a light skinned fella may treat me like gold.

Dark skinned men simply have an easier time getting my attention. A light skinned man may have to work a little harder, because the attraction may or may not be as strongly present. But I find men of every race attractive, as well...I just happen to find darker men more attractive more often than any other.

 

hey! I haven't been here in while, but I completely co-sign with DH! ^^

even down to the nice Pakistani fella... hehe

 

excellent post, I hate poeple who are like I only date ww because bw are loud obnoxious etc., or I only date black men because white men are......, if you have a preference then by all means that's great but no need to belittle a group of people to make your justification to yourself seem more better

 

Coming from another rebel I consider such comments a great honor

Cheers!

 

Exactly!

The one thing that I wouldn't say hate but it is very annoying is the people who say they are attracted to all races, shapes and sizes and what not, but always dating that one specific type. Admitted you have a
preference. I talked about this before. It seems like people with a preference hides it really because you will hear them say things don't matter to them when dating but never see the results, I got female cousins that say they are attracted to guys of every race, but when
they go out they tend to take immediate notice of the brothas and notice
a lot of people male and female do that.

They will tell you they have no preference but when it comes
to putting that in action their focus goes on one type and one type
only. Admitting to(themselves) having a preference is still seeming to be a bad thing that I think some people are trying to shake or hide in shame....

There is this one girl on blackplanet.com that stated that she thinks
it is sad that she doesn't get asked out by white men, and this girl
dates mostly black guys and goes to clubs that are consider more "hood" and not to mention she is on blackplanet.com apart of many interracial groups...How in the hell is it sad when apparently putting yourself amongst
the brothas mostly, no one told you to do that. Dating works both ways
with men and women, they have to look for what they want just as we
are in order to make connections, so I didn't really buy it that girly
thought it was sad, because number 1 you could date whoever you want
and number 2 why are hanging around mostly brothas hitting on you getting sad about white guys not asking you out.

Question for the ladies: If you getting alot of attention from
black guys when you go out are you going to go home thinking
about the fun time you had with the brothas are too depressed
to think about it because your sad white guys are not asking you
out?

 

I only date white gals,and prefer those who got black hair, because of the contrast of skin color and black hair, it's a great turn on for me.I find black hair very pretty on a white gal.
And I think that the contrast of skin color in an interracial couple ( black and white ) is simply marvellous !

 

Black Men

I grew up in an all white community. But I have always been attracted to black men. I have dated white guys and black guys, I think black men know how to make a woman feel beautiful and appreciated. Personally though, I am just 10 times more attracted to Black guys...something about them it drives me absolouty crazy lol.

 

And this is exactly how some, if not all of us black men feel about you too.

I think on a physical level, the contrast in skin colors may actually have something to do with it, and on the personality level, it's refreshing to have a companion that brings out the best in you. But whatever it is, I'm not complaining.

 

right.

Niether am I
I think that its the way a confident black man carrys himself. I love that, he is comfortable with himself and knows all the right ways to make a woman feel her absolute best. I love taking care of my guy and making him feel his best & the outcome is amazing.
But also like you said about the color contrast. I think there is nothing more beautiful then dark skin on white skin. The color difference is different, but you are two people who at one time would never be able to be together. Kind of shows how far we've come as a world & nation. its a wonderful thing.

 

I can not disagree with you on any of it!

Now will you please talk to your California sisters, because they ain't getting with the program, the same as you midwesterners. I should have been born in Michigan.

 

haha

Well, those "california sisters" need to realize a good thing when its infront of them. Maybe im traditional but I think its a womans job to take care of her man and make sure he is always happy (not when he is controling and disrespectful) but that is always my priority. You have to be real with him and take good care. Whatever race he may be. But you black men, you really do the trick for me haha the old saying is true

"Once you go black, you never go back"
im hooked haha

 

Your philosophy is golden, my friend!

BTW, have I said welcome the forum yet?

Well, I think I just did.

 

well thank you for welcoming me.
im just trying to figure this website out.
it is actually very confusing.


but you seem like a nice person