Do you only date opposite color? Why?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by kneegrow, Feb 11, 2009.

  1. TheChosenOne

    TheChosenOne Well-Known Member

    I date the person...not their color.
     
  2. keane

    keane New Member

    I prefer white girls
     
  3. Effie

    Effie New Member

  4. Elklodge

    Elklodge Well-Known Member

    I date whoever likes me that I like just tends to only be white women
     
  5. BlackMasterJay

    BlackMasterJay Well-Known Member

    Your mentality is way fucked up kid
     
  6. kneegrow

    kneegrow New Member


    Wow!!! in mase voice

    you shouldn't generalze mayne
    imo
     
  7. thefieryphoenix

    thefieryphoenix Active Member

    I try to date women with whom I have a lot in common. Love need not have racial boundaries.
     
  8. Serendipity

    Serendipity New Member

    I prefer and am more attracted to black men. I can see attractiveness in white men but I'm not attracted to them and I tend to get more attention from black men.
     
  9. csbean

    csbean New Member

    In the States, we call those banter lads "Assholes." I'm pretty much the same as far as people coming on to me. Old white guys, middle eastern, and lots and lots of mexicans! A mexican guy was hitting on me the other night at a club, and I said I wasn't interested. He said, "Is it because I'm mexican?" and I said, "no, it's because I'm 5'6 and your about 5 inches shorter than me!"
     
  10. NCBradin

    NCBradin New Member

    I'm back off. I'm not going to saying anything about this.
     
  11. Effie

    Effie New Member

    Hmm...on the color wheel, I think my opposite color would be close to
    this color.

    I don't think anybody is that color. Well, except when they are about to pass out from asphyxiation. So the answer is, "no".
     
    Last edited: Feb 13, 2009
  12. shinnes

    shinnes New Member

    very calm and nurture

    I used to be attracted to black girls a lot. I dated three within a 8years period. The last one was mixed but still looked black. So I moved to Delaware and there are so many White people around me and I just start changing and seeing things differently.
    I hangout with white girls all the time now and I have learnt a lot about them since I moved here. They are very calm and the nurture they possess is something that I haven't felt before...and to be honest I do want to get the feeling of it.
    I haven't date one yet, but I am seeing myself dating one as soon if I get the chance. Its far from easy to date a white girl in Delaware though, so might not get the chance...but that's my story.
     
  13. Sonny Dragon

    Sonny Dragon Well-Known Member

    I'll date any girl who was into me. But I attract more women of opposite races than mine. Every Black girl I've dated was light skinned, except for maybe 2. I really don't have a preference, but girls from different races other than mine are attracted to me. Why? I don't know. But I'm not complaining.
     
  14. Complex

    Complex New Member

  15. Effie

    Effie New Member

    So, who has the emotional need to prove him self right? And the condescending wink, completely logical or just an expression of ego and smugness?
    I'm sorry if my use of the expression "BS" upset your delicate emotional sensibilities. I also find it interesting that your use of language "foul" or otherwise should be of such importance to me, in your opinion, that you would arrogantly assume to dictate to me how to express myself. Arrogance, not a feeling...hmmm?

    Yes, indeed you are, but I'm sure you'll get over it when you calm down.


    I didn't say women didn't have emotions, I said we know how to express them with greater accuracy resulting in less arrogant, condescending tripe masquerading as reasoned thought like, oh, your post for example.

    The bottom line difference, you are dishonest about your emotions to yourself and to others in order to protect your pwecious ego.

    Hugs!
     
  16. Brittney

    Brittney Well-Known Member

    LoL! :smt023
     
  17. tford

    tford New Member

    I only date white women if that's what you mean.
     
  18. Complex

    Complex New Member

    It's not a matter of proving who is right, it's bringing it to your attention that your comments reflect what I stated.

    Nothing more, nothing less.
    I live in New York. I hear foul words all the time. :D However, you did take it upon yourself to share your thoughts in great detail this time around as oppose to your previous reply. Have it ever dawned upon you I planned that way?

    I can assure you, there is nothing anyone can say on this board that will hurt my feelings.

    How can one feel hurt unless their life revolves around such message boards?
    The above says it all. However, I have no idea why you are in defence mode?

    I merely replied to your comments when you quoted me.

    My post in regards to treating every girl as an equal and not putting one over the other on a pedestal is based on my dating experience. I’m quite sure everyone has his or her own experience when dating a person from a different racial and/or ethnic background other than their own that may or may not differ in regards to the post I wrote on the subject of the matter.

    Cheers!
     
  19. Effie

    Effie New Member

    I disagree, both with your assertion that my response reflects anything but a introduction to a longer post and with the protestation that you have not been emotional in your response. This is actually proving my point as you seem to have a difficult time defining emotions, particularly, yours.


    I thought you might enjoy that part ;). I actually did "take it upon myself" to respond in very great detail in another post, which I referenced in this thread. Perhaps you missed it.


    It is very interesting that you would assume my posts are a product of your superior machinations. I am fascinated by displays of delusional grandeur such as these. Keep 'em coming.:smt043

    "Yes, indeed you are, but I'm sure you'll get over it when you calm down." was damn funny and you know it. :)

    I have no idea why you would think I was in "defence" mode. Perhaps it's because I don't sit on de-fence and actually have an opinion?

    Either way, no defense mode here, maybe it's a repressed memory from childhood that you are transferring onto your internet debates. You know, you really shouldn't "revolve your life around message boards" so much. ROFL ...yes that was a joke too.



    Actually, I wasn't referring to that post at all. I was only referring to your broad generalization about women being "walking emotions" and to your follow-up post. Which was made (presumably) without having read my detailed explanation in the other thread.


    The stuff about how you dane to treat "girls" is not of that much interest to me. So I'll leave that laying where it died.

    Go to the thread I started if you want to continue an on-topic discussion, I took it there for the purpose of not hijacking this thread.


    Lacerated arteries!
     
    Last edited: Feb 17, 2009
  20. artbunker

    artbunker New Member

    I would say im more attractedto white women, but Ill date anyone and be serious with anyone who captures my mind and heart. I date all women because why go to 32 flavors if you only gonna chose the smae one only? :)..:drinkers:
     

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