Welcome! I am a little bit heavier than u.... but shorter. I wear the 14 too, I think (italian sizes r different). According to the guys, if u have nice flat stomach u r thick... otherwise u r a whale:smt076. I fall in this category :smt012, lol. Oh, and u have to have the hourglass/coke bottle shape, lol. I got that at least
sounds thick to me. Many of the dating sites don't have that option though. They will have "a few extra pounds" and then go to "bbw". But you aren't a bbw. You could always check the category and then state the information in the text of the profile.
Who cares what guys call us anyways!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thick/Fat/Skinny.....:drinkers: - THEY SHOULD ALWAYS SAY INSTEAD " Look at that beautiful WOMAN ! "
why is it that only us women have categories that the men came up with -- skinny, thick, fat etc etc ... We don't have any special categories for the men and none that I've seen have listed measurements they want for their men but yet I've seen men list inches, height, weight, bra size etc etc etc. All this crap doesn't matter anyways. I can say I want a guy that's 6 foot but if I'm out and see a man I'm attracted to and he happens to be sitting down I'm not thinking I wonder what height he is or he better be 6 foot. And if he happens to be shorter than me or the same height it won't make a difference. All these "qualifications" and "categories" are freaking ridiculous.
Athena, Can you pls change your Avtar. It's making me feel dizzy. Put the doggie back or something. Thanx
I've got categories for men. They go as follows: Player Jerk Douche-bag Nice Guy Asshole Whore Sweetheart Dumbass A Nice Guy can be a Dumbass, but not usually a Douche-bag, and a Douche-bag can never be a Sweetheart, but likely will be a Whore. Assholes sneak into all the other categories at random intervals, depending on the day of the week and how they feel, but most often are partnered with the Dumbass category. Physical categories? There are those, too. Biggie-sized = super overweight but thinks he's god's gift to everyone, despite the fact that his tits are bigger than mine. Campbell's Chunky = still with big tits, but less than mine and a decent ass, usually. Matchstick Man = Like NBA players, tall, skinny, but less muscles than an Athlete. Wimpy looking sort, makes ya just wanna say "come on, baby, hit the gym for chrissakes". Average Cuppa Joe = nothing remarkable about this type. Average across the board in every possible way (and I do mean every possible way). We can't get into endowment, however, because the moment women start speaking publicly about penis size issues arise fueled by jealousy and feelings of inadequacy and suddenly we all turn into dirty whores (not in the good way). But there are categories for that, too, but it'll have to be kept to female only discussion, to avoid any possible hurt feelings since we all know our "big, strong men" can act like real pussies sometimes.
Average Cuppa Joe = oh dear...DH...are you talkin' bout me? LOL... I think I'm an Asshole/Nice-Guy/Sweetheart combo with about 25% being devoted to asshole and the remaining 75% split between Nice-Guy and Sweetheart. Would you agree? Men worry about penis size more than women; though I think society gives conflicting messages. On the one hand some say that what counts most is how you "work it" while others say that size matters. Men bitch about dick size the way women bitch about ass/boob/stomach size...though men can't really change what they've been given while women can (if they've got enough time and/or money and a damn good plastic surgeon). Moral of the story is to take what you've been given and make it work for you as best you can. Good stuff DH...we need more convo damnit! :smt033
Darling you are far from average. I'd say you have a smaller percentage of asshole. We both know you have your moments of asshole glory, but they're few and far between..so I'd say more about 5 percent asshole. I don't think you have an equal blend of sweetheart/nice guy...you're more sweetheart than nice guy. As for conversation..you've still got my phone number. Use it!
Thanks for sharing, I looked at your website and your are beautiful, I love what you guys are saying about putting people in categories, but I have to tell you my bm always made me feel beautiful and never uncomfortable about any size issues. I know several women who are over 250 lbs, married to men who are fit and attractive and they have very fulfilling sexual relationships. It seems the plus size women have alot of skills!!
yes yes , we are very talented lol... unless you want to lift us and u have no muscles lol. thanks dear . And yes, black men are the only who ever made me feel beautifull, too. ahahaha, u r a great woman, no doubt
I'm a smaller guy compared to the big dudes in cellblock D...I tried my best not to drop the soap..LOL
