I really need advice

Why are you trying to impress people with your lack of sexual partners? What's that got to do with this situation at all?

I have nooo idea what world you're living in because in the real world everyone is judged all the time. Half of the people on this site are judged everyday by their skin colour amongst other things. So what did you expect when you mentioned that you were fucking a married guy with kids? Damn, there's a lot of single guys out there you know.

I don't even know why you asked this question because according to you, you've already filed police papers. What advice were you expecting? You knew what you were and are going to do. Seems pointless. Sorry.

 

Yes!! I see that but that is okay it just means they have no empathy for anyone :rock:

 

You think that was name-calling? Clearly, you dont know me.

That post was the first honest thing youve said about your situation. You fell for his shit because you were vulnerable! This guy has always called and stayed in contact with you because you were always vulnerable and he knew that you would give in and see him. We are all vulnerable at 17-18. We are all vulnerable when we are in shitty relationships. We are all vulnerable when we feel alone. But we still have to make good decisions. Otherwise, we leave ourselves open to be taken advantage of by shitty people who are already married but looking for something on the side.

 

I have empathy for people - the homeless, kids with AIDS, abused wives, bullied children -NOT someone who expects sympathy because they've been messing around with a married guy then make out his wife is the one in the wrong.

 

"Why are you trying to impress people with your lack of sexual partners?" I am not trying to impress anyone with my sex partners: I am being very HONEST with that. I am sorry if you cannot say the same for yourself. "Half of the people on this site are judged everyday by their skin colour amongst other things" If you want to be judgemental that is for you to do it is a free world but no one here is mentioning anything about skin color that must be on your mind.:roll:

 

Thank you i think you summed it all up in a nice manner and respectfully!! Now that wasnt so hard was it

 

Lol. You're an idiot. Thanks for the negative rep by the way. Your name describes you well, a real homewrecking sweet angel. Obv didn't understand what I wrote at all.

 

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Also, im sorry sweetangel but im sort of hoping the wife will get to you, maybe a knock on the head could restore you to a normal frame of mind

 

Thank you to:smt052 I am sorry i can say alot of things about you but unfortantly i will not stoop to your age level in your brain. MUAH!!

 

Thanks to you to!! His wife has tried and failed in one attempt years ago but i will give her the go ahead if she would like to again. :butthead: I am not about fighting over this man or any other man it is not worth my time!!:smt050

 

Thanks for the negative rep (sarah s)

I am sorry i did not give you negative rep and if i did i would state that i did. I am not about these mind games on the computer to move on :smt025

 

Sweetie, you don't know a god damn thing about my life because I don't tell the whole world about it on a forum. Clearly you have stooped to my level, because according to you I'm a bitch (rep). So don't be so self righteous, that's my job.

 

WTF, could you say about her, being patient with you is pointless, you are an F-ing idiot.

You tapped my neg rep already, you have to make the rounds before you do it again. lol

 

Yeah, because being responsible and number of sexpartners is so correlated. No, using protection, not hurting people and behaving like an adult, THAT is correlated with being responsible.

I can to some extent understand that you did this because you were vunerable. That, however, doesn't make it more right. It's a reason but does in no way excuse it. If you would have said "I feel so bad for behaving like this, I was really vunerable at the time..", then sure. It would have been different. Now you didn't, and therefore you get the reactions you do.

If you are feeling vunerable and lonely and need a hug, find a good friend who can eat ben and jerrys with you and hug you and tell you that it'll be alright untill it feels better. It works heaps better and doesn't make your life into a mess.
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Okay:smt050 Yes i can be a bitch and i have all rights to be one!! Unfortantly i did not call you one but as you made up in your Pathetic mind that i did but that is okay with me today:smt025

 

Not even going to argue with you because you have the mental capabilities of an amoeba.

 

Thank you! I have felt bad about this for many years and i have expressed that to his wife and she understood me. She sat there and listened and i sat there and listened to her. The reason there is a rukus now is because he has called me again recently and i have said NO but she doesnt understand why he has called me and neither do i.

 

thanks to all the people who have given advice i really appreciate it!!:smt050

 

There are some tall tales being told on the internet that i might believe, but this is not one of them :smt043:smt043:smt043

Tell us a story Jackanory, luv! the fact that you may be able to write your own name surprises me lol

 

To hear you is a laughing matter.. To know what i have accomplished is an honor!!