White boyfriends wanting to share you

The WM that do this are simply making fools of the BM and their wives. By encouraging it, they are saying "Hey blackman, your best asset is your sexual prowess...and I can't compete with that...that is the way you attract women...therefore I am going to allow you to have intercourse with my wife and at the end of the day...she will still be with me because even if you come at my wife with your best stuff...she isn't leaving me because my best asset is better than your best asset"

To some WM... WM = financial security, overall comfort, stability, acceptance

BM = sex

Therefore some WM feel... WM > BM = white woman can have sex with many black men but none of it is enough to lure her away from the comfort and normalcy that the WM can bring.

 

I know people have their kinks but the white men that do this or interested in it are sick imo and so are the women. I would NEVER agree to it no matter what.

 

I still see this as the worst form of racism, these same WM would never allow their wives to sleep with other WM, because there would be a risk of them leaving, and the only way they don't care about this or even encourage it is because they feel that the women would never leave them for the BM as is he were somehow less man, or less real, than the WM.

 

Okay, I've come across this behavior kinda sorta...

Thankfully, my boyfriends have never propositioned me with something like this but I have gotten the strange questions about my interest in black men.

One guy I dated would try to get me to admit that I was enthralled with BBC. In fact, he had some porn of BM/WW that he was nice enough to share with me one night... When I asked him why he had that kind of porn, he gave some lame response but it was pretty obvious that he was into that kind of stuff. Sometimes, I think they're just waiting for me to suggest this kind of act to them so they can agree to it if they're allowed to watch. Somehow, I think all the fun to them is being in the observer role, where like someone else said...they can live vicariously.

Anyway, this is something I could never do. How can anyone have sex with someone with others watching?? Ewww...

 

Well Amy, you being in Los Angeles the same as me, already know this is the porn capital of the world. If not for the saturation of porn throughout the entertainment industry, especially here in L.A. which does eventually find it's way into the personal collections of so many guys, (me not included) then, maybe the cuckold thing wouldn't be such a fetish for so many guys. But porn, and maybe interracial porn to be exact, may have allowed those guys another avenue to consider, regarding their sexual fantasies.

Just a thought.

 

I don't think it's racism. These people have a purely sexual fetish. Some are swingers with preferences, some are voyeurs and some are called cuckolds.
Most of these people won't let their wives sleep with someone, regardless of race, if they were "small." Again, i don't call that discrimmination, just a preference.

 

This phenomenon is also known as: having your cake and eating it too.

white women have mastered this concept

 

Elaborate...

 

Nope,its definitely racist

You should here how they(whites in the cuckolding scene) talk about blacks.

"big black buck"(not acknowledging him as a human being,but a "buck",an animal)

"big black cock"(not even acknowledging him as a person)

And other pejoratives....

there was an cuckolding article posted here a few months ago.In it,a husband who liked to see his wife have sex with black guys ADMITTED to harboring racist views,but didnt have a problem with his wife fuking black dudes because he said that he knew his wife wouldnt leave him for a black man.....

Those white husbands have no problem with black guys fuking white girls,but they do have a problem with black guys having intimate relationships with them.In other words,if they arent in control,and arent gaining satisfaction and pleasure experiencing their fetish,then they arent cool with it.

 

Alot of those white women think that they can fuck as many black guys as they want(under the whim,and guidance of their white hubby's ofcourse)and not have to suffer and/or deal with the social ramifications of actually dating a black man.

 

i noticed

that many white men i know are infatuated with the size of a black mans cock. I dont know if its curiosity or jealousy.

 

White dudes have some weird fetishes

 

Wm aren't the only freaks. I dated a bm who wanted to watch me with other bm. He's the guy who liked asking if I loved his n-word dick (if you recall that thread). I think his fetish was based around racist attitudes he has about white people. He actually said "black seed is the superior seed." That relationship was short-lived.

 

maybe

a friend of mine actually asked me to take a picture of my ex boyfriends so he could see for himself how big he was. i was very creeped out after that. Of course i didnt take the picture though lol

 

Yeah,but you ever see a bm get off to girls having sex with dogs?

Because i never have lol

 

So you watch wm getting off to girls having sex with dogs?...Looks like there is possibly at least one bm here interested in that...hmmmmm???

 

Uh,no,i aint a white male

lol

 

He was one silly brotha!

He let a dime get away from him, all over some stupid, freaky ish like that...

LMBAO

 

I find this whole thing VERY weird.
Thankfully I haven't ever experienced this and none of my friends have, either. I've had a couple of white male friends ask 'if it's true what they say about black men' but they dropped the subject pretty quickly.

Although I don't agree with this 'it's only white men that are freaks' business, I have noticed that white couples tend to me more into swinging and partner swapping. Something I don't get, not want to understand to be honest.

 

Me either. There's no way in the world i'd ever let another man touch my woman. Not a chance.