Where did your facination start?

just admit it, you love black guys......come on it wont hurt. after all we're all online and no one can do harm to you. if you don't like this site and its purpose, why spend anytime on it?

 

lol its women we are talking about.

 

Wow, that's interesting.

 

My fascination started 3 years ago with a co-worker. Yes, we had a secret office romance going on. :smt058 He ended up breaking my heart so I would never recommend an office fling, especially if you have to work directly with the person everyday.

 

hmm my ex, i was never really into white women but she changed my whole perspective etc.

 

I appreciate your open-mindedness. Allowing ourselves to experience something/someone new can sometimes change the course of our lives.

 

Can't remember. Back in elementary though. This girl I liked from damn near 1st to 7th grade was white, so ehh....guess that's my story.

 

Same here. I don't think I have a facination, per se, but I went to a majority white private school since I was 5. I guess its the primacy effect. The reverse would be true if I went to a more racially mixed school. Hell, I didn't even start dating black women until college since the population was more racially mixed. Now I must admit that my attraction leans more toward white women and I believe my early childhood experiences helped to shape this.

 

Yeah, I went to a private school too. A christian school(It was babyback bullshit), and it was mostly whites, but there were hella other people who weren't white. Even though I live in like the the most racially diverse city in the country, it was still mostly white, and there were few blacks in my class.

 

Well I would say for me, that It occured when I was 3 or 4 years old watching chalres Angels. I loved jacquline Smith. I thought she was an angel back in the day. I lvoe all women , but even when the 2003 remake sequel came out I was still in love with her for some reason lololollol

 

Ah ha ha!! When I was 5. My first kiss, and I was the initiator

 

I initially took an interest in white women because all my elementary school and most of my middle school teachers were white women. And as I got older and hit puberty around 14, I just started finding the color contrast irresistible. Physically, I just find myself loving everything about them.

 

well I have an itching presently...I havent jumped the bandwagon...you know after reading these posts listed here...my globalized opinion on this wf on bm attraction has boiled down to two things 1) sexualized attraction 2) level of acceptance...it seems kind disheartening actually...mostly what I am hearing is they some wf has developed some sexual fantasy of a black man through exposure or repression and now they are in ectasy b/c they are with black men now...or white men dont appreciate me b/c of my body habitus or etc...I refuse to believe black men in general are any better at sex than any other man...our skin feels the same as any other rough leg....have you felt some of the hands of some brothers??? pure brillo pads...i know a kat that uses wire clippers to cut his toenails b/c they are so tough...man yall are tripping

 

hmm, the answer to the Forbidden Fruit.

 

I started liking white women more when I started high school. I just came into metal music at the time. 95% of the metal kids at my school were white, so it's not a stretch to see that I would take more of an interest in white girls, at least the ones who like metal music

 

And I'll add
No where in timless

 

I have always been attracted to black men i think ever since i was old enough to realize what girlfriend/boyfriend meant.

 

I'm not fascinated, I'm attracted. It began at exactly the same time I became attracted to women of every other ethnicity. I didn't begin pursuing until about 21. I grew up in the deep south... Baldwin, LA. 1.1 sq miles of mud, gator shit and racism. My mother used to always tell me 'You bet not neva bring no white guhl home.' It took me quite some time to look past that mentality and follow the desires of my heart and testes.

 

Well, it just sort of happened.
I'm attracted to people, not skincolor, but up until about a year ago, I didn't hang out with any black guys, so I didn't get to know any. I did have a tunisian boyfriend for a while, and dated a couple of persian guys.
Then I started to hang out with more black guys, and well. Attraction happened.

 

I think that is exactly why I never pursued an interracial relationship, all the stuff I grew up with, my mom in particular. She's not and wasn't racist but she has race issues lets just say, and it sorta stayed with me even being an adult, I don't know maybe I just always wanted to please her in some way.

I always had an underlying interest and attraction to black men but it wasn't until a black man walked into my life by chance that I realized maybe I was going after the wrong men all my life and maybe that is why I never felt a connection of any sort with the white men I had dated. It was a comfort level, a connection, an attraction that I had never felt before with any other man and to this day that hasn't changed. I still feel that with black men but not with white men.