I would only move if I knew I had the means to get by. I've never moved or stayed for a man, even though a few have wanted me too. But, if I was struck by true love and all that, I'd probably give it a shot, just not if I didn't know I could be independent if I needed too.
Hi Scylla By the way I love your avatar. What do you understand by being struck by love? Would it be linked with cultural issue ( your being living in another cultural environment and the way it could smoothen the Love you have within for somebody from another culture)? By the way how important are words in a relationship you may be engaged in? Could you clarify all this please?
If I could make my living on my own, without my husband or his family, so that I would not be too dependent. If I knew the official language or thought I could learn it quickly. If I always had the chance/money to go back home. If I was sure his family is loving and relaxed. If I saw and "tested" my man in his home environment for more than a 2 week holiday. Well, why not, for a few years or so. Its -9 °C right now, I would like to have a change.
Thanks Queens Ladies, it gives an indication of what you think about west africa not waste africa for some.... Keep on writting and posting. I'll gather the information to work on interrcial dating culture Thanks Queens Ladies
I split my time between Australia and Southern Africa (about 3 months per year) for the most part with a bit of others thrown in en transit. I'm lucky in that I can work from home if need be Botswana rocks, I love it lots, West Africa, I don't know so much about it. Main thing is to have a means of supporting yourself (duh!) Have heard tales of white women moving there and freaking out, not being able to handle being in the minority as far as numbers go. It's never bothered me in the slightest though. edited to add, I don't like South Africa much though (well the other white people.. I don't usually like them.. hah! ) and the crime is pretty heavy so I don' think I'd enjoy living there. I will drive or fly or bus to SA if I need to do something, enjoy it for a day or two, then get out..
If I had a job where I could make enough money to live and save some money that is comparable to what I could save at home, or... If I had a good job that I could do, and enough money saved to live off that would mean I didn't have to worry about it. Unfortunately, it's all about money!
Of course FEGH, money is necessary to get ride of constraint. I support you enterly For my Queen's Land to land in West Africa it means she should swim a sea of happiness, i.e getting ride of the basic constraints of the living; solve the question of abundance. And be at the top of the social ladder to serve the best our abilities society . My Queen's Land is a female Eagle like I'm a male Eagle King of the Sky. F, I rather see my Queen's Land on vacation spot here in West Africa and living in the World Center. Peace.
Yeah Saty We're a "fast food and Mc Donald generation " things are obvious for us And for me it's obvious you know It's crystal clear