I like a man who knows who he is and is not afraid to admit it :smt043 Just to put my two cents in .... Ofcourse everyone is different but I can't see how one bad experience with a black man would put someone off black men. As a white woman I've had plenty of bad experiences with white men but that didn't put me off dating/being in a relationship with another white man over and over. Personally speaking, having one bad relationship with a black man would not put me off black men if that is who I connect with and am truly attracted to. Every man is different ... some black men will be dicks, some will be gold just as some white men are dicks and some are gold.
I can see where you're coming from here.. have to say that it's a common problem in intercultural dating. so really, just avoid chauvinistic idiots, and you'll be fine. The quoran talks a lot about love and how important it is.. but a lot of societies that are conservative/traditional.. well, they permit alot of crap views of women and then defends it with religion.
I wouldn't sweat it, Mosk. I think you just hurt the pride of some of these men with your statement. Apparently, it's okay to go around parroting "once you go black, you never go back" but not, "I went black, and it's not for me." I do think you are probably still interested, though. :smt002
Hmm..doesnt quite have the same ring. Possible alternative:"I went black, but white man can you please have me back." ....just a suggestion...
I didn't castigate anyone for not being interested in Russian women, and I'm certainly not bashing black men. Please take the time to read carefully in the future!
Goodness, it was a pissing contest between Toronto and me that went too far. Let's let this thread die.
You're too lazy to read the thread.... good, you haven't missed anything. The best thread going on right now is the Book Seriousness one. I haven't posted anything there because after reading the 3 pages I feel intellectually inadequate.
Yeah, I hear you. I'm not reading anything heavy right now. If I posted what I was reading, I'd look like an idiot compared to some of the stuff I saw on there. :lol: And yeah, I was too lazy to read through the thread!!