This is very sad

I have the sadness to admit that i have just discovered how much my african brothers (Excluding black Americans or southern-africans: Botswana , south-africa, Lesotho and Swaziland) are using white females in Europe.

Majority of African immigrants get married to the white females just to get
permit and dump them after getting their papers. i have lately met so many Swedish females affected by this... Yesterday i was in tears when i got stories from this girl that got divorced by her nigerian boyfriend just after he got his resident permit , leaving her as single mother. She even said that she lost her trust in african males. fuck that :evil:

I never took this seriously before , but i have eyewitness it myself ... Girls in europe are so cool and a lot of them truly fantasize about us ( i really appreciate it , but this might change after few years).

There is no much i can do about this , but i will ask Europeans white females reading this post at the moment to be very careful and please do not rush when such guys ask you for marriage or a baby ( you should judge them by yourself but please this is real ...). And remember they are always
exception in the rules and i can give you an advice on the type of Africans doing this in majority but in private.

:evil::evil::evil:

 

One such experience is quite enough. My husband took me to the lawyer to apply for papers THE DAY WE GOT MARRIED. And I cried because I felt so used, and he said he regretted having married me.

 

Unfortunately, there are many of these such stories with women in the US as well.

 

You should have filed for divorce.

 

I did eventually...:lol: I'll stop with these bitter posts though. This was the last one.

 

THis is very sad but woman like (me) are becoming more cautious on dating anyone because of the stuff that goes on when we date/marry a man. It is making it harder for woman to even trust a man or a man get a womans trust because of things that happen like this. It is a shame that someone could stoop so low to hurt someone else because of permits, abuse, neglet or etc.. relationships should be something that is very precious to people not some toy you can play with.

 

You're 100% sure no southern-africans are in on this too?

None, at all?

 

Most european females are very sensitive and emotional ... So these fuckers are trying to transform them into monsters.

Mosk , i am sorry about that ... Good that you realized that so quickly.

 

I did not say : "no southern-africans are into this " , from the inside information and fews people i met ... there are no southern-africans involved in this (FYI , Most southern-african do not illigally immigrate in europe... they are there on study permit , visit or work permit . trust me).

If they are , it should be a very little percentage...

 

:smt008

Yes, I knew I was being used... just stayed in denial for too long.

BMJ is wrong: I'm not racist and I don't belong on racist site. I'm very happy when an IR relationship works out. When a couple proves to the world that it's not what everybody says, it's not just curiosity, it's not just about sex, it's not just about papers - no, it's love, and two people have found happiness. When I read Bryant and DI's story, I had tears in my eyes, too.

But these men you mentioned, work for the opposite - breaking people's hearts and turning everyone against IR. Making it this much more difficult for IR daters to be comfortable in society.

Today at work I had a couple come in, a white lady and a Jamaican man. You can see it's a happy, stable couple. They just renewed their vows over in Jamaica, and showed us the pictures - aww, a white dress and flowers and sand and ocean waves.

They probably have listened to their share of crap too... but the love was stronger.

 

If so, no one has overstayed the visa? None? I highly doubt that.

As for absentee fathers/heartbreakers/serial cheaters being only Northern Africans, ask the German ladies about the reputation of some US armed forces male officers/soldiers based there and elsewhere in Europe.

You might be surprised.

 

I don't know how much experience you have about the african life in europe and where/with witch community you have been with in europe , but i am talking about a ratio here. I did not say no one ... please re-read my precious post. My comment is based on the communities i visited and trust me i visite people from various African countries.

And i can't truly comment about what americans are doing in Germany as i know for a matter of fact it isn't for the paper , and you stated "Some" US armed males ... i am talking about the majority of Africans hooking with white females.

 

You are letting emotion cloud your reasoning.

Falsehood and deceit in male-female relationships are nothing new.

They merely take new forms of expression.

They are also not the exclusive domain of entire continental regions and their populations therein.

IMHO, of course.

 

Hey MasterJay ,

i am up-down ... but i am not residing in south-africa anymore.
check my profile to see my current location, it's heaven here man.

So what points are you trying to make , why are you so upset about this? How will these women know that they will be cheated on ? Shit , do you wanna tell me that you have a pattern to get the perfect partner? Who are you calling losers ? Please shut the fuck up If you have nothing to say.

 

The Ignore List option on User CP is a great thing (as my friend Francie has taught me). When you put somebody on your Ignore List, you don't have to read their posts (they're hidden), and they can't quote you.

 

Look there are things that i don't wanna talk about in public , things that i did not know until i got here myself ... I Know about male/female relationship problems , and trust me i am just trying to advice my European sisters here , this is the least i can do as i care so much about them.

Sometimes , truth hurts but it is the truth...

 

Thanks Mosk ... i will do that now

 

That's relative.

 

:smt099That's it.

Time to go.

 

I think this is well documented and think most of the women here would be aware of this. But, I do think even though a lot of Africans do marriage scams, its seems to me certain African nationalities have mastered it better than others, and have developed a reputation for it...I think thats what Maghilil is getting at..