Black as hell, good thing or bad thing in a woman's world

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by kenny_g, Aug 6, 2006.

  1. alessandra

    alessandra New Member

    :shock: :shock: that is one of the most racist things i have ever heard :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
     
  2. kenny_g

    kenny_g New Member

    And to make it worst it is mostly people of lighter ethnicities, not that many white people. (All though there are alot, it's just alot more of our own.)

    Eva Longoria said in a statement in an interview that since she was the darkest in her whole family she was teased for her darkskin because darkskin in the latino culture is look down upon.
     
  3. nobledruali

    nobledruali Well-Known Member


    :D Haven't heard that one in a while. That's one from BACK-IN-THE DAY! I don't take it too seriously though because there're all kinds of little jokes that all races have amongst themselves. As a matter of fact it seems that alot of the young sisters from the south seem to be attracted to tall slim dark skinned brothers so go figure :idea: :wink:
     
  4. LaydeezmanCris

    LaydeezmanCris New Member

    That whole dark skin tone is bullshit to me. Hate it all you want, i am not altering anything of mine just to please some critical assholes. If you don't like me, fuck you and move the fuck on.
     
  5. Jodie

    Jodie New Member

    You tell 'em!!!

    I agree, this whole thing is BS. People are so ignorant. I don't care, dark toned or light toned, I like them all! doesn't make a difference to me :)
     
  6. Silvercosma

    Silvercosma New Member

    Same here! Besides, it's a very subjective definition anyway. I heard many people being called or calling themselves "darkskinned" and I was thinking: and can you show me where, please? ... :lol:
     
  7. FreenOpen

    FreenOpen New Member

    It is a real shame it has come down to the pigment/skin tone of a person... I personally am attracted to a man on a much Deeper level and has nothing to do with how Damn Black or Damn White he is...

    I wish/hope/pray woman and men alike would start appreciating eachother based on Substance and Quality.

    We are all Citizens of the World and God's creations therefore We are ALL Beautiful.
     
  8. Brittney

    Brittney Well-Known Member

    JMO. I think that is stupid! Calling a woman a bigot because she's not attracted to really dark black men. I don't think what someone is attracted to, or not attracted to, should make them anything negative or someone who should be judged like that. Isn't that what this site is for??? Not judging someone because of what/who they're attracted to?? A place where you can go and converse and talk about your attractions without being judged negatively for it?? Are we bigots because we aren't attracted to white men, or attracted to mexican or asian men??? WTF, seriously. So someone isn't attracted to you. Get over it and find someone who is. As you can see, there's girls here who do find darker skin attractive. Are they bigots because they feel THAT way, bigots towards the lighter skinned black men? :roll: Damn...

    ANNND... I know plenty of BM in here who say they are more attracted to paler white women, like glow in the dark white, and BM who are more attracted to lighter BW. Why isn't anyone saying those men are bigots or discriminating???????? What's up with that?? Why does the "bigot" have to be white or just a woman (who isn't white)?? WTH kind of sense does that make? Please share. Thank you.
     
    Last edited: Dec 12, 2008
  9. ItalianLady

    ItalianLady New Member

    I feel the exact same way about my attraction to extremely dark-skinned black men...soooooooo sexy and beautiful!!! I've been dating black men for only about 1 yr now,but I'm always drawn to the very dark black men. I love their pearly white teeth when they flash their bright smile and they have that raw sex-appeal that makes them makes me fall head over heels in love with them!! When I first met my South African bf I was instantly attracted to his looks...I was so captivated it was like a was under his spell! I knew he was mine, all mine!!!
     
  10. Sir Nose

    Sir Nose New Member

    Lucky man
     
  11. WhiterShadeOfPale

    WhiterShadeOfPale New Member

    If skin tone matters to someone they are totally missing the point. The guy I crush on now is dark though, but I'd like him regardless, he has a lot going on that is awesome. But I've had the whole spectrum of boys I've dated, white, black, hispanic, Asian whatever, and liked them all for different reasons, but skin tone was never much of a factor past the initial moment I met them.

    Even then, being attracted to a black men is probably more about who he is as an individual. Although a small part of what attracts me to my crush is that he is in this completely different culture then me, mainly what I like is that he is a great guy.

    Also, what is sexy about the black culture isn't whether he looks like creamed coffee or expresso, its the way the guy wears his clothes or carries himself- which is all different from the guys in white culture, not better or worse, but much different. And that stuff is all totally outside of skin color.
     
  12. WhiterShadeOfPale

    WhiterShadeOfPale New Member

    Wow, "the paper bag test" is just a perfect metaphor for how awful people can be. It made my heart sink to read it.
     
  13. Arwen

    Arwen New Member

    Personally I prefer dark guys more then light or mulattos. Even my ex was almost blue, lol, my favourite shade is... uhm... chocolate?
    And stop it with this "racist" thing. It's normal for eveybody to have preferences! A man likes blondes more than brunettes? Well then a woman has the right to like darker or lighter-skinned guys. And u know well that when we fall in love, we don't really care... we would take u even if u r green! :)
     
  14. Serendipity

    Serendipity New Member

    I like darker skinned men as well. Don't know why really, just more appealing to me; I love the contrast.
     
  15. Sir Nose

    Sir Nose New Member




    That settles it. Tomorrow I am signing up for some sessions at a tanning salon.
     
  16. Tinkerbell

    Tinkerbell New Member

    Well, you did look pretty light in that coffee cup pic Sir.

    I tend to agree with all the other ladies, really dark guys have a special appeal, the skin is down right beautiful.
     
  17. untitled1985

    untitled1985 Member

    I know light skin blacks who think there better than dark skin blacks weird.

    I'm not light light skin, but i'm the darkest in my family
     
  18. Arwen

    Arwen New Member

    u r perfect, D. :cool:
     
  19. Arwen

    Arwen New Member

    no, silly. u look good as u r :)
     
  20. Serendipity

    Serendipity New Member

    And you know that saying ...........


    The darker the berry the sweeter the juice :p
     

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