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The title is important. It's what gets people to look inside the thread. But if people see that other people are posting in your thread, they'll be curious what it's about and click on it anyway, no matter what the title is.

 

hmmm i m kinda surprised that #5 is so popular! lol but actually, i think it has smth to do with the men naturally being the heads of family, or at least their urge to be that. so i think its just the way it should be.

 

There are options for men in the life anyway. I made my choice though

 

Me too.

 

Here's my reason for going with #5.

#1 - High Class is nice, but it also likely means high maintenance. I'm not looking for a princess, I'm looking for a queen.

#2 - Mrs. Independent can potentially be intimidating. For me family comes first, and I'd like my wife to be on the same page with me for that. Plus being away for weeks on end on business trips = bleh.

#3 - Like a boy. I can hang with my boys.

#4 - Mrs. Mystery., not really sure what that means.

#5 - Mrs. Obedient. Seems more nurturing than any of the other women listed. Would likely be on the same page as me as far as family goes. Very motherly. And, of all the pics of women posted, she was by far the most attractive for me.

#6 - A sex bomb. I didn't really see much more in her than sex. I'd like some substance too.

 

If I was a male, I'd probably go for mysterious. Or sex bomb. Lol.

 

I like 2. There's nothing like a women who knows what she wants

 

I think if i was a man id go for No 2

She can go out make the money, but shes still gonna need a house husband bitch male, id say that she could give you a good life guys lol

joking

 

Mrs Obedient

 

I agree with DI about the #5 being a natural choice for men, for the same reason she said, but I wonder if you all would say the same thing to people in person. It just isn't heard. It's not politically correct.

I don't care, I prefer a man who knows how to take charge, a man who wants to make the weighty decisions, and I love to do things for him. I think it's a natural role for women to take also. But again, women who like that role are criticized because it isn't politically correct.

When a lady says, "let me see what my husband has to say first" or "I have to make dinner for my man first", we are critisied by other women who don't have such a wonderful man and don't understand why we put him first. We're told, "You aren't his slave, he should understand, etc.." We are expected to be more boyish, business womanish, or more sexy, and to "make our own decisions".

Bare in mind though to have a happy #5 you have to love her dearly, and to be 100% trustworthy. A woman who is really loved, secure in that love, with no reason to doubt her man, will naturally want to respond like a #5 IMO, even if it isn't her primary trait.

It comes with knowing he loves/cares about her and the family even before he cares for himself, it helps her trust him completely, and a man who is trusted is easy to "obey", for lack of a better word. His wish becomes her command, because she WANTS to do it, it really fulfills her and makes her happy! There's nothing demeaning about it.

And DI- I like the title, it made me curious and this was a great question for the guys. :smt023:smt023

 

really? well i'm glad that my stupid title could seem curious to smb! thanks!

yea, me too, i have that desire for doing everything for my man and being mrs obedient for him. but at the same time I feel like being independent for some reason. I've always wanted to have a career and not to always stay home and wait for my husband in front of the window, even though in tradition of my nationality, this is how i should be. I guess, i inherited it from my mom...cause she told me, she was always like that with all the guys she've ever dealt with. and now with my dad, she's putting him first of course, but i still see how she let him live his own life when it comes to somethings, and she's living hers... well, i dont know..it's such a difficult thing to figure out what i really am...

yea it is an interesting thing to know what men (Black men) want their woman to be like