what do white women love about black men?

And we love y'all too. Just keep getting those pedicures before it gets too cold outside for sandals.:smt112

 

we know

 

There indeed is a big difference btwn black men and white men...black men are so athletic!! the black NBA & NFL players have the most beautiful physiques!!!! I found, to my utter amazement, that the black men I've dated have the sculpted, muscular bodies(with nice,bubble butts!!:grinand the performance ability to rock my world like no other man!!!! They really are black stallions!!! Black men have incredible stamina!! They never tire when making love!! I truly believe- the blacker, the better!!:smt045

 

Just Trying to Understand

Hello,
I am new on here as well...
I would like to know why Black men want white women as well....

 

I think women are generally attracted to men who seem to have characteristics that you can respect and trust. For some reason, I find that A-A men bring out both responses from me more readily. Superficially, it might be due to such things as the contrast between their hard muscles and their puppy-dog brown eyes. I just melt when a man says sweet things to me with a deep, deep, smooth voice. I'm 5'9" but a couple of the A-A men I dated could and would just effortlessly swing me up in the air or hold me up against a wall to kiss me. So very charming and sexy at the same time.

Also, they are wonderful conversationalists. They are more creative, intuitive and poetic in their use of language. When I interact with very intelligent A-A men, it becomes so clear to me why so many of the great artistic movements in America originated in the A-A community. I am never bored when I'm with an A-A man.

I suppose I could attempt to give my opinion of A-A men as lovers but my mind just sort of lapses into monosyllables along the lines of "yum...yeah...yes!"

 

I really don't know what attracts me more to black males.
I think it's just everything, I like what the other post said about contrast, I love the contrast I think I like the fact we're like opposite, from skin to nose to hair. Even kissing a black guy, I mean I never knew what it was like to kiss someone with lips before!
It's not just a physical thing it's a mental thing too I think, I can't even explain it! Hell there's no way to explain it, black guys are just sexier.
Once ya go black ya don't go back though, that's for sure. Well for me anyway.

 

I totally agree with SarahS. The only difference is my tastes are very particular: I'm strongly attracted to extremely dark-skinned black African men...I think they are sooooooooo incredibly sexy!!!! and the absolutely best lovers!!! It may sound shallow, but for me- the blacker, the better!! I never knew sex could be sooooooo intoxicating until I made love with a black African man from Senegal...those pearly white teeth when he smiled at me...his gorgeous body!!! His shiny, dark,dark chocolate skin!!! Everything about him was sooooo verrrrrry sexy and irresistably HOT!!!! Yes!!! It's so true...once you've had black, you never go back!!!

 

After reading PilgrimSouls reply, it's clear to me that she has a great deal more sexual experience with A-A men than I do... but I do find black African men as well as extremely dark-skinned Caribbean men to be very attractive!! My first relationship with a black man came about at my bff's insistence b/c I was quite reluctant to be sexually intimate with any black man. I did agree to meet up with him and maybe have sex, but only due to my sense of guilt over treating her so harshly over her choice to date black men. Both her and I are Italian-American and I've only been romantically involved with Italian-American men. It took one night of passionate lovemaking with a black African man to show me that there is no other race of man who can make love like a black African man!!

 

Why was that?

 

After reading PilgrimSouls reply, it's clear to me that she has a great deal more sexual experience with A-A men than I do... but I do find black African men as well as extremely dark-skinned Caribbean men to be very attractive!! My first relationship with a black man came about at my bff's insistence b/c I was quite reluctant to be sexually intimate with any black man. I did agree to meet up with him and maybe have sex, but only due to my sense of guilt over treating her so harshly over her choice to date black men. Both her and I are Italian-American and I've only been romantically involved with Italian-American men. It took one night of passionate lovemaking with a black African man to show me that there is no other race of man who can make love like a black African man!!

 

LOL- I'm 43 so I've probably had a great deal more sexual experience in general than you. I've had 3 A-A lovers. Really they were very, very different men (artist, athlete, business executive) in many ways and came from quite different cultural settings so it's hard for me to put my finger on exactly what it was they had in common that makes me feel like I have a definite preference for A-A men now. In dance, a strong male partner is described as being a good "frame". My A-A lovers have been good "frames" for me. It was like their sexuality was so solid, I could just bring on my own little leaps and pirouettes and feel beautiful within their context. The phrase I would use to describe what I want when I'm interacting with a man, in or out of bed, would be "affectionate man-handling" and that's what I've received from my A-A lovers.

I'm not dating at all at the moment because I have other priorities but I think that although I would be open to dating other men, I would be drawn towards A-A men because it has been my experience that from the very first interaction, e-mail, phone call an A-A man will just boldly put the ball in motion and I will find myself happily cornered, caught (pardon the bad sports analogy) and then affectionately man-handled.

 

lol that was in the 70's, it's now 2008. if nobody stopped interracial dating in the past when it was actually ILLEGAL, what makes you think it's going to stop now? seriously, what's your purpose on here? your comments are not going to make a difference in the world because they will forever be regarded as stupid and ignorant.

 

hey i used to live in rochester, new york too. i moved to atlanta 2 years ago. i have an italian aunt as well.

 

Wallowing In Disgrace

Lol

I'll have my disgrace in blonde, brunette, or red head.

 

Nobody ever said the white race was superior damn you reaching hard and whats wrong slow day at racist site? Stop trolling trust me you will be banned before the day is over.

 

lol now you're bringing religion into this? maybe you don't know that according to the Bible, God made ALL HUMANS!!! why would he bainsh someone to hell for marrying another human? and you racist confuse interracial marriage with INTERRELIGOUS marriage because God stated that it is wrong for two people of different beliefs to marry but he never said it was wrong for two different races to marry.

 

and no race is superior to another......all races contributed to what we have today. maybe you assume that the white race is superior because they hold the most economic power in the world? well as you know, greed is what destroys nations and look at what is happening to america......

 

Super Man!

YOU regard the Black Race as superior.

...and your penis envy complex is all the proof I need to know, for that to be the truth. Lol.

 

Shush troll. Most of the brothers on her date black women also.:smt099

 

Ignorant

Seriously, What is the god dam difference of who dates who no matter what race they are. If motha fuckers connect and enjoy each other-good for them. As stated before the only superior being is ourselves. What we all bring to the table is what presents itself in 2008.