Going to Moscow for Spring Break

About my failures in with European women?? LOL, maybe I'm being a bit harsh on myself but for all this, I have nothing to show for it thus far....

I am a bit interested in writing a book but only if I succeed in finding that woman....

 

Dj4M,for a man who got to the first two bases with European women it is better than none at all in my case.

 

If you think in terms of bases why spend money going to Europe? Go to your neighborhood bar. :roll:

I think djmonie is more interested in making a real connection with a quality woman.

 

I would be interested in you Moskvichka but alas I don't think your interested. You are a woman of the HIGHEST quality.

Soulthinker -

You need to be more aggressive with women. I don't know why you have bad luck.

I am very much interested in quality women and why not?

I want a intelligent mother for our future children, somebody who will be at the forefront of issues regarding human beings.

I will find that woman... with a bit of luck and yes when I sit down and write this book I hope people will LEARN from my mistakes.

 

Oh my goodness... Thank you!

 

UH no a bar is not a good spot to pick up anybody, I say go out to events in your area like art shows and things of that nature. I might even suggest you take some art classes lots of women are in those and most are open to IR,take some continuing education classes at your local college. I think you also need to be a bit more aggressive and also if one says no another one will say yes keep trying and if I say if you go to a bar don't go to a dive go during the week like on a Wednesday or Thursday hell hit a lounge instead.

 

Moskvichka you live in the States not Russia and to suggest to me to go to a American bar is very foolhardy if not sarcastic.

 

Well yeah Soulthinker I was being sarcastic because a man who thinks in terms of bases/scoring doesn't have to venture beyond the bar to find his instant gratification. But a man who's on another level looks for more than getting to the next base.

 

Ouch!!!

 

Unless you had relationships with Black American men instead of African men its a dumb idea.

 

I don't think she dates brothers anymore correct me if I am wrong.

 

So... you didn't say you were not interested....

I left my email address a few post back your welcome to use it if you don't wanna answer here, since PM's are disabled...

 

I'm very flattered but I'm taken. I do believe you'll find somebody who's right for you because you know what you want and seem to have no problem connecting with the ladies. I remember those pictures of hotties you showed us, especially the dark-haired one wearing sunglasses! 8)

 

Tatiana?

Yeah I have been talking to her for over a year. If I could run down the other pictures I have....

Well I am happy that your taken and happy with your relationship after your marriage died.

However I do not want to put all my eggs in one basket, that backfired on me already. That's basically what I did with the Norwegian lady. Its just hard picking the right services and web sites that will help me.

 

I smell the faint whiff of desperation in this thread.

 

Who's desperate?

That "smell" is not coming from me. I don't spend nights and days searching page after page of personal ads and marriage agencies.

Unlike this web site and several other dating sites that cater to IR, umm that's still basically "foreign" to Eastern Europeans, especially in areas that have limited internet access.

For example, the girl who's picture I posted shares a PC with her aunt but they don't have unlimited internet access. Web access is a costly expense in Russia or in the Ukraine which is where I was.

I was completely shocked the person in the next apt had WiFi in the middle of a typical Soviet style series of flats... Larisa the girl I knew in Kiev has limited access I think 30 hours a week for I think what amounts to $20. At $300US a month to live on, including rent and food and taking care of a baby, ummm having unlimited net access isn't the first thing on her list.

Thus making contact and constant communication a bit of a challenge.

Tatiana now has Skype so think things might improve on that front.

The facts are I am 37, I'll be 38 in Aug and the time for messing around and not taking this seriously are over. I don't want to be a man in his 40's and 50's having his first child which seems very common these days in America. I am constantly meeting American women that are single mothers (not ideal) or women in there late 20's, early to mid 30's with no intention of having children, or women in there early to mid 30's that frankly I am not interested in at all.

Nicca please I can call up this girl Suzi and take her out on a weekend cruise to Mexico and she'll be on cloud 9. I DON'T WANT TOO!

So if constantly looking overseas and dealing with 9-10 hour time differences is desperation to you, so be it...

 

Man let me tell you if you can take girl on a cruise to Mexico do that playa, I would like to ask you why not? I know going overseas is great and everything there are fine ass down to Earth women right here for the picking, I know you probably going to say but Injera man they want too much all they are about is money and cars nope not all of them. I think you should hit Minnesota,Seattle,Portland and even Vancouver,B.C. again I know you might say but wait they are in American and Canada is borders on America and they will have the same so called attitude American women are suppose to have. I say thee nay of course a woman is going to big up what part of the world she is from it is only natural.

I will say you can find that woman of your dreams right around the corner.

 

I know I do...

:cry:

 

The Mighty Thor hath spoken!

 

Okay Injera I had to re-write this reply a couple of times...

First I want to apologize to Bryant and DI for Hijacking their thread. Seems when I post about its highly controversial.

Women from non-EU countries present a laundry list of issues to an American man. But so do many South Americans for that matter....

My requirements go beyond what's generally available to my income bracket, lifestyle and education level. When faced with those problems, you can go legit which would delay the process by several years or cheat the system.

I have chosen to cheat the system...

There is nothing illegal with what I am doing - :wink:

Somewhere deep in the archives of this board are the yawns I spun about driving a truck through the lower 48 and Canada. To sum it up, I would have the same issues there that I have here and wasn't overtly impressed with what I saw.

Actually NOT the complete same. But I have already traveled across a couple of states to meet women and it still wasn't ideal.

Injera I beg you to please email me if you want an actual and complete answer where I will pull no punches. If I post them here, it would garner much more controversy and turn this thread upside-down - dj4monie@yahoo.com