Addicted to White Women?

never be afraid to be your authentic self and live in your truth! Must admit at one point I was not as open with my preference due to fear of upsetting family/still being partially financially reliant on them throughout college/early part of my career. Man was I miserable! You mentioned relationships like ours coming under attack. What’s weird is living in the Midwest/South (whatever you consider Oklahoma lol) it’s a lot more common of a pairing than you think and I’ve personally noticed an uptick in interest and flirty interactions. Especially from country women. Not complaining by any means lol. All this to say once I got to that point and noticed the sun still shined, life still moved on it’s been amazing and I’ll always support others doing the same.

 

Yes, I get this totally. You are so afraid to take that leap but once you do you are soooooo much happier and see the world differently. The barriers they put on us now are all in our mind, we have been brainwashed and conditioned not to pursue what makes us happy. What brings us joy! We have to remind ourselves that we still have the right to go after our desires! There is definitely an uptick with 1:5 black men going for white women, I want to see it reach 1:4 and even 1:3 ratio respectively. I know so many young black men miserable who do not get to go after the women they admire.