How are these cities for IR dating?

was this a diss? haha jk but seriously you're probably right, I think it's probably because Charlotte is so spread out so you have a lot of people in the burbs and the country but there are still a ton of people so all of that put together with long driving times makes for ATL traffic

 

ohhh I think I've been there, it's not too far from Greensboro right? I roadtripped out there with my friend Elizabeth because there was a pizza place out there called Elizabeth Pizza the pizza was good but the area was lonely asf

yes CLT is all those things. that was a big reason I moved here for college. people are open minded about everything, and yes like you're saying IR relationships are common, people date who they want and people who want to be in IR relationships are bold about it and shoot their shot with you. and yes there is a lot to do but you're right about it being expensive. I underestimated the expense part of it when I moved out here so I don't get to enjoy a lot of the advantages of CLT because I am constantly working or doing homework if I do get to stay here when I graduate I'll actually be able to have a personal life which will be nice congratulations to you too on making it happen with the Pharm Tech game healthcare is bus, we gonna make it

 

Yes, it's only 30 mins from Greensboro. I hang out in downtown Greensboro all the time cause it's so boring where I live. Right now, I have an apartment in Mayodan which is about 2500 people at the most. But I've lived all over the county including Reidsville and Eden. I even worked at Elizabeth Pizza in Eden several years ago, I'm not sure if that's the one you went to.

I like boldness actually. Whenever women from larger cities move here, they are extremely bold. As a man I appreciate that.

 

makes sense, that's exactly what I'd do if I lived there and tbh I can't remember but I think it was in Wentworth.

yeah I remember being in shock about getting hollered at by black guys when I first came to CLT, just didn't ever happen in my hometown up north. but yeah I appreciate the boldness myself

 

Oh, it was the one in Wentworth. That's crazy, because I attended the high school right across the street and the elementary school up the street. Me and my friends would eat there at least once a week after school.

Where is your hometown if you don't mind me asking and what is it like?

 

Congratulations!

 

Man,you indeed live in a tired county. Hope you got hookups in Mecklenburg County so you are able to meet a brother.

 

My apologies l thought you are a WW. The Triad has a lot of universities.

 

Other than being in the airport for connections / layovers, I haven't been in Charlotte in years. Over twenty to be precise. Has it transformed that much?

 

I have only been here a couple years, but everyone says it has grown a ton and gotten a lot more progressive in the last five years especially

 

that's awesome! what a small world I spent most of my time growing up in WV, some Florida but mostly WV

 

Glad you enjoyed the Queen City.

 

it has its moments but I think it's one of the best places in the country tbh (no disrespect to the cap city )

 

None taken. If you can tolerate the traffic it's all good.

 

finally graduating next month and I've accepted a travel nursing job my first contract is in Louisville, KY and I'll be there at least through most of spring! does anyone know anything about Louisville? I know having a social life outside of college will be harder and I don't really want to date anyone at work. I also prefer men older than me so that makes things more complicated does anyone have tips for meeting people? I've avoided dating apps but I'll probably have to use them. has anyone here had good experiences with any of them? thanks everyone

 

May that brother treats you right.

 

My son attends university in Nashville and I have stopped in Louisville quite a few times in recent years as I drove there from the north. I have been pleasantly surprised by Louisville. There are some nice classic buildings and architecture in the city and some great restaurants. I haven't gone out at night there, though, just to hotels and dinner. The university scene there is busy enough that there is some intellectual life in the city. Have a great time there!

 

this is encouraging thank you I'll be taking a quick trip out there soon and I'll let you know what I find

 

Have fun and good luck!

 

thank you