People need to start getting real here....

Okay, so I've been reading this site regularly and to be honest, I have a bone to pick with a select few comments that seem to be being said over and over.

One, prior to coming to this site, I believed the whole white women "bigger cock" thing was a tool used by white men to demean white women who like black men. To see so many WW openly post things like "He's so big" (and yes, I know you're not talking about his eyes :roll: ) and to (even worse) see BM shaking their heads going "damn straight" is disgusting. Little knowledge for all of you, that was part of the KKK's properganda on how blacks were savages and animals. Think people.

Two, to see people write the things they do about BW/WM is pretty uplifting for a site about "diversity". A lot of people here hide behind the "were discriminated against" cloak and yet to read some things here (see: Immigration thread) would make you think you clicked racist site. Newsflash: there's only two types of realtionships: good ones and bad ones. Differences in your skin tone does not make you anymore anioted than someone else. I mean, ask yourselves, are your mom and dad evil for dating mono-raically?


There's no denying that inter-racial realtionships have a long way to go before they're universally accepted, but I think some people need to go back and read some of the stuff posted here before casting fingers. If you asked a racist white man (And sadly, I know plenty) why he dislikes BM/WW together, I fear he could very well take some of the posts made here into his argument. You would be livid if I casgated Heidi Klum and Seal (A beautiful couple if there ever was one), so be respectful if Giselle marries Tom Brady or some similatr mono-cutural realtionships. At the end of the day, life should be about companionship, not skin color.

 

I see where you are coming from some of the posts here can be cringe worthy,but overall most of the people here are pretty open with their thoughts. The site does have some knuckleheads on it like all forums do.

 

I'd have to agree with INJERA when he writes that some of the posts here are "cringe worthy" - which is why I have to take a break from reading every now and again. (I'm not one to engage in endless online debates.) However, I have a preference that isn't shared by the majority of people that I know. So finding a place like this site where my preference is accepted and understood feels good. Those "cringe worthy" posts aside, I'm glad a place like this exists.

 

I see where your coming from, BWood. But, I think your angst is a little misdirected. One thing I have learned from listening to my sisters talk about guys is that women have always talked about men in regards to penis size (and other physical attributes). Your just hearing it in the context of BM/WW relationships and with the net and other mediums you can "hear" what women really talk about and how they feel. Its no different than when men talk about women, there assests, and how they perform.

 

My feelings exactly



( Sorry BMJ :smt019 )

 

Oh my, a guy actually understands?! A guy realizes that women really do talk about penises amongst themselves in real life and that it's nothing new just more public on the internet?!

See, that's why I love you, jelly. You actually get it.




I miss you, jelly, where have you gone?

 

For the women who do, hey whatever works, but I don't talk about penis size with any of my friends. It's none of their damn business.

 

The KKK and white nationalists can think what they want to. I mean, if this is a site for WW/BM relationships, I'm sure things like "dick size" would be mentioned. I don't have a problem with talking about those things anyway. There are many threads about "big booties" and "big tits" on here. I don't think there's anything wrong with one about dick size. And it's not like that's not all that's mentioned here. There are threads about other things as well. It's not like this is some big IR porn site or something

I agree with you.

In my opinion, people can date whomever they want. I would never attack someone because they date and/or marry within their race. That would be stupid. The majority of people in this country and the world do that. I date who I like, and other people should too.

 

Just wanted to say that usually I like your posts Dex. They are reasonable and show tha you have a good heart.

 

Well thank you Canelle. That was very nice of you. You're such a sweetheart.

I always try to make sense when I post. I take my time and think about what I want to get across to people

 

True.Racist propaganda feeds itself with the mistakes some minority ppl make - I would go as far as saying that sometimes they're happy to see murder,rape or disrespecting attitudes in the black community towards whites cause that only reinforces their message,although the act outraged in public.