Public Display of Affection - how do you feel about it?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by jen14, Feb 26, 2022.

  1. jen14

    jen14 Active Member

    Hi all! I was wondering how everyone feels about PDA and what your comfort levels are with it and I can't find an existing thread about it so I decided to post this...

    So what do you think? How comfortable are you with public display of affection yourself and what are your boundaries (how much is too much or how far is too far)? If you are, are you more comfortable in front of a crowd of strangers or when you are surrounded with friends or family? Does is bother you if others are engaging in it in front of you?

    Personally I am a bit shy, so I am not too comfortable with it, I just think some things are best to be done in private... Having said that I would definitely be more uncomfortable with it if I am surrounded by people I know, especially family, even though I am not too keen on it in front of strangers either. For me, anything more than a light kiss on the lips and a hug is a bit over my comfort level... my partner doesn't seem to agree and sometimes he seems to try to get "hot and heavy" in front of others and I have had to slap his hand and whisper "stop it" LOL..
    And it does not bother me at all when others are doing it, but sometimes it's like "that's too much, get a room"

    What do you guys think about this?
     
  2. DudeNY12

    DudeNY12 Well-Known Member

    I'm OK with it. I think I probably fall in the middle of the pack where things like holding hands, hugging and light kiss are absolutely no issue, but beyond that... Imore often than not I'll save the other stuff for when we're in private. I will say that I absolutely enjoy sneaking in a bit of the risque stuff in public. So it's all good as long as my partner is not on total prude status. Oh.... I'm absolutely guilty of rubbing her booty in public, lol. That's one of my weaknesses
     
  3. Soulthinker

    Soulthinker Well-Known Member

    I'm ok with it and don't care what people think in spite of Karen's and their friends. It's the 21st century.
     
  4. Soulthinker

    Soulthinker Well-Known Member

    Cool indeed. If l had a White gf l would do the same or similar.
     
  5. Madeleine

    Madeleine Well-Known Member

    Hug, (quick) kiss, holding hands are enough for me. We are generally very reserved with PDA in front of family and people we know. If we were out in a big city where nobody knows us and he’d touch my booty or something like that I’d not care either but not here in this small place where everyone knows each other.
    I can’t do a full on make out session in front of people.
     

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