Should Women Ask Men Out?

God I hate that shit

It's the 21st century and everyone is super PC and screaming equality in one breath, while screaming that garbage in another

Like a coworker of mine told a group of whiny, emasculating women; if you want men to start acting like men, give them a man paycheck

 

I wouldn't say they should, but I'll judge a woman who asks me out as someone of high mettle. My admiration wouldn't be too far behind.

 

Yep. I just left the last IR group I was in. I thought that one might've been different. I was wrong. Boring. I get enough excitement in the other two relationship groups, even though they're not singles groups.

 

and.................

 

Why not? I don't bite (but I do nibble)

 

Yes! At least they know what they want and weed out men who irritates them.

 

There’s nothing wrong with it, but I’d rather send them the hints so THEY ask me out. I don’t expect them to pay though, we are just getting to know, we can split the bill. That way I don’t feel any obligation. However if they insist on inviting me it’s fine, too.

 

No never . it always the mans job to approach the girl.
The way as a girl to "ask" the man out is by dressing very sexy.

And when he look over maybe i move to stand in a way that shows off my best features with the way my cloths that day fit.

 

A closed mouth doesn’t get fed.

 

Mine does

 

You are married, so it doesn’t count.

 

Are you suggesting nobody would want to ask me out if I were single?

 

I’m suggesting that if you are interested in someone, you should tell them. Sending signals because you fear having to approach a man/want to convince someone that they should ask you out, is not the best option these days. You are married, and it’s been a while since you’ve been on the dating scene.

 

That’s true but German men have been on the passive side all along lol.
I don’t mind striking up a conversation and showing that I’m interested but we have to meet halfway somewhere. Else what’s the point. I don’t need to convince anyone.

 

Idk. Usually women know how to let you know they are interested. Doesn't matter to me as long as it's not a coworker. I don't want the awkwardness after I tell you I don't date coworkers.

 

I usually just ask someone out myself anyways. I’m not hung up on the whole who’s asking who thing. There are rare times where a woman has straight up asked me (& I do mean rare) & I was completely floored cuz they usually were unexpected.

...oh and I don’t mind paying honestly for that first date. It’s just something I do.

 

I don't have time for the childishness. I prefer direct women, the kind that aren't afraid to go after what they want. That personality type aligns with my ambitions. But, to each their own. Some guys like traditional setups from non-traditional women.

 

To each their own. I need convincing, as I like my own company and have no interest in marriage or having children. A lot of ambitious women/go-getters are more than comfortable wining and dining to get what they want, but I do understand that some women prefer the "traditional situation with non-traditional people" thing.

 

Not even sure what that means but I'm not into the boomers right now.

 

LMAO!!! What I mean by that is some guys like non-traditional women (IE. Women who don't maintain old school traditions) that like traditions (IE. Women who want you to make the first move and seduce them, etc.). Some people like gender roles (They aren't a bad thing if both parties are cool with it) when it benefits them. Everyone has their preferences/kinks, to each their own.