Like I said - I don't think you have anything to worry about on this.

But that really is the biggest question. I think often times it is very difficult to differentiate between those who are genuine and those who are not.

 

I agree its very hard to differentiate but personally, if the guy comes out of the gate, knowing nothing or very little about me and lays it on thick with all the "terms of endearment", it turns me off and I tend to think its not sincere.

Moderation is key and also how well the man knows the woman.

 

A smart woman can tell the difference because she's heard it from men who aren't geniune and from men who are.

 

The bit ive highlighted would be an absolute nightmare, what can you say to a person who barely knows you and makes a statement like that, scary, scary shit and why on earth would a guy think that was the proper way to get a woman in his clutches lol

Managing on my own with 2 kids, that statement would make me run a mile maybe 2, no maybe 3

I really don't think you can tell, who is playa talking you untill you get a good perspective on the man himself, he may be making the (hi sexy, hi baby) mistakes because he's just not exsperienced enough to be smooth,
I think its the really smooth ones you have to worry about

 

I agree with you. Sometimes those who are a bit awkward/lame are the most genuine.

I'm thinking the scariest are the nice guy bad boys. Those who come across as really nice guys but are really playin

 

Yes unfortunately i have exsperienced this, soooo perfect soooo smooth, but not overly, just right, all it amounted to in my eyes is a whole year wasted that i won't ever get back :cry:

Im liking my regular date now, hes so clumsy in his compliments, but knows how to shake his head at old ladies in the club, but time will tell if hes a player im sure, but hes so terrible with his lines they defo only work on me :smt045

 

I miss Bug and Francie....Chi and....geeze I may have to pop some others. Too bad some of them are gone.

 

Oh, an oldie where I remember most of the people.

 

I'm trying to bring up a range. There seems to be a lot in the middle range missing. I found some way old ones (sorry but they are some of the best so I may bump some) and a few in the last few years.

 

It's all good. All that's needed is for them to be interesting.

 

ahh I can't guarantee interesting. Right now really random things can be interesting

 

...and, this is true!!!