Robert Smith is my god***m hero!

Discussion in 'In the News' started by JamalSpunky, May 19, 2019.

  1. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    You can't live on one income as a family anymore in the US. I saw a report recently that there is no place in the US where you can afford an apartment on minimum wage. So only the exceptional can afford luxuries like a roof over your head.
     
  2. Madeleine

    Madeleine Well-Known Member

    It’s clear for low-income earners. Let’s say college graduate with five years work experience who doesn’t live in one of the expensive areas. Food is very cheap, gas is cheap, clothes are cheap. In fact, many things are cheap in the US yet salaries are 4th highest in OECD countries. Switzerland ranks 2nd in salary but many essential things cost twice as much as in the US, yet many families live on one income or 1.5 incomes. Maybe Americans spend a lot of money or they have different financial goals in life.
     
  3. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    That's not economic costs lol. Strict rules for college students, like not being able to switch majors and exclusion. You said NY has "free college" but 70 percent of the people that apply to that get REJECTED, that's a cost. Some of those people getting accepted wouldn't even go if they had to pay. So basically the government is filling up seats making less available for those that were going to go whether they had to pay or not. Those are the real soldiers. If I'm hiring, I would rather hire them.

    Only the top students in Europe can even get into college and when they do the programs are very restricted. That's how it works, when you replace market forces with arbitrary rules. It costs those who are supposed to be getting something "free."

    Economic costs take into account for OPPORTUNITY costs. You can't escape that unless you are infinite. I don't think you are, maybe Jesus Sanders is.
     
  4. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    You are looking at polls? you are supposed to have more faith than that.
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  5. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Yes, for many families not being able to live on one income really is the issue, especially if they'd prefer to have a roof over their heads and to be able to feed their kids. No doubt there are some women who'd prefer to work rather than be stay at home moms, but for a lot of women staying at home is not an option. It doesn't help that living gets more expensive by the minute, yet wages are damn near stagnant and many people are living paycheck to paycheck just to cover the bare necessities. Even things like health insurance are a luxury that many can't afford, and even if they can scrounge up enough to pay for the coverage itself, many can't afford the copay to use it. And people are screwed if some kind of emergency expense comes up.

    Of course, according to those lucky enough to be able to afford everything, the assumption is people who struggle are "lazy", or "irresponsible", or "not pulling themselves up by their bootstraps", "looking for handouts", etc. when it typically has nothing to do with any of those things. Contrary to what some may think, the US isn't the fantasy land of opportunity that it's made out to be. It could definitely be worse, but it could also be a hell of a lot better.

    Old-fashioned or not, mothers are damned if we do, damned if we don't. Mothers who work are often looked down on and accused of neglecting their kids/husbands/homes, and mothers who stay at home get accused of not pulling their weight and putting all the burden on their husbands. I think that's why so many of us try to be superwoman and try to do it all even though it's never deemed enough. There are things fathers have to deal with as well, especially if they don't adhere to the traditional role society expects them to play.

    Things are even crazier for single parents trying to make it. Thank God my son is grown. It's a lot worse now than it was when I was raising him; I can't even imagine trying to do that now.
     
  6. Madeleine

    Madeleine Well-Known Member

    There’s no perfect country, no paradise. One thing might be better here, one thing there. Now that I live in Switzerland I appreciate Germany more although it’s not perfect either.
    I’m happy though that I live somewhere where it’s not considered strange to take time out to take care of kids...be it both parents go part time or mums stay at home for a couple of years. With number 2 starting Kindergarten I’d probably have looked for a part-time job at this point if not for the fact that I’m expecting.
    Oh and by the way school still has a two hour break over lunch time in this place so the kiddies can go home, eat lunch and come back. Obviously they assume mummy or grandma is at home cooking for them:). That’s in inner Switzerland, in the bigger cities they actually do have lunch programs:)!
     
  7. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    Unfortunately black folk think like consumers, they live in the present and have virtually no economy among themselves. Add employment discrimination to that and you're looking at a mess. The government can't fix that for us, we have to change the way we think. I'm not holding my breath tho.
     
  8. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    You're right, every place has its ups and downs. Even though there are things that suck about the US (Trump for example, lol), but it has its good points too. It would be nice if the culture here was more family/people friendly like other places, but even though it's not, I still feel blessed. It's about making the best of whatever life throws at you, so I try not to let the bad stuff get me down. I just work hard, do my best to take care of business, and let God help me with the rest. He's never let me down.

    I'm happy for you. It's a huge blessing to be able to take that time off for your kids, and it's awesome that it applies to both parents. It's nice to have the option of time off for your husband when the baby is born. I guess it's common for kids to have someone at home to feed them there. That's a lot of trips back and forth though.

    It would be nice if my job paid more, but I do get a lot of time off throughout the year. I don't make anywhere near the amount of money I used to, but not working myself to death and working in a less stressful profession is worth the trade off to me. It also helps that I like the job. I wish the less money job had been an option back in the day, but I did what I had to do.
     
  9. sarah23

    sarah23 Well-Known Member

    In the European Union, there is generally a good family support system. Like payments for each child in education up to 18 years.
    But couples still are struggling to get to the end of the month.
    So people will say that they cannot afford to have a second child. We all know how the population is falling in many E U countries.
    But there is also a cultural facet to this. Immigrants generally have large families, even though they are financially strained.
    But children are important for them. The mother stays at home to take care of them. Its a question of personal priorities.
     
  10. Madeleine

    Madeleine Well-Known Member

    Let’s underline this three times. That’s the whole point. It’s about personal priorities. For many Europeans the priority is to travel and enjoy life and be free until it’s almost too late to have children. Not that it’s so bad here they can’t have children. Germany has way better laws for parental leave, affordable childcare, affordable healthcare etc than Switzerland, yet Switzerland has a higher birthrate.
     
  11. sarah23

    sarah23 Well-Known Member

    Most young men now, do not wish to have children. As you say, they wish to be single and enkoy lif for as long as possible. And to concentrate on their carreer. But then its too late to have children. Or just 1.
    Immigrants choose to have a family before everything else.
    Then we criticise them for relying on the country. That they abuse our system.
    Because they do not like us.
     
  12. Madeleine

    Madeleine Well-Known Member

    They might rely on the social system but we rely on them unless we want to get extinct. :)
    In all fairness, most make ends meet themselves, except for very recent immigrants.
    Europe has the best social security systems in the world (some countries more than others) but the lowest birthrates (with Japan). We have some collective psychological issues.
     
    Last edited: Jun 19, 2019
  13. sarah23

    sarah23 Well-Known Member

    We are ver
    We are very racist towards these immigrants who choose to have children.
    As you say,we will become extint without these children.
    And we need workers.
     
  14. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    TDK thinks everything is completely subjective. TDK in the hard sciences: "I think it's time we amend Newton's Laws."

    Of course when John Nash updated an economic theory, he used advanced math to prove his point. That's why they call it "proofs". Emotions and political bias doesn't mean squat.
     
  15. Madeleine

    Madeleine Well-Known Member

    I think between minimum wage and „exceptional“ there’s still a vast range in between, right?
     
  16. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    In theory but not in practice
    My fiance and I just got a place. When we through the available apartments out there even for two well educated people with decent jobs its insanely expensive. I'm talking 2500 for a one bedroom apartment. Granted its close to the train and water but even on the cheap side around 1600 is too much for a minimum wage earner to afford not to mention they want three months upfront along with a high credit score. The barrier to entry just to keep a roof over your head is high. This is why I constantly critique capitalism in its current form. Even if it works for me personally its not sustainable for the vast majority
     
  17. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Dude what on earth are you talking about?
    Some things are subjective. Your pov would be against the minimum wage altogether. The popular thought before it was if employers had to pay workers more than they were willing to then they would logically hire less workers. No one seemed to account for multiplier effects where a robust work force not only produced more they also consumed more. Henry Ford (never mind his racisim for a second) recognized that by paying people a good wage they worked harder and also purchased the very thing they produced.
    The system was not manifested into perfection we can recognize where it is failing and fix it. Isn't that the very purpose of engineering.
     
  18. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    You telling me what my point of view is? You're practically arguing with yourself.

    How's that going for you?
     
  19. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    How about that post where your idea of "free college" is a rejection of 70 percent of applicants? Now how is it free if it's not available?

    I thought we were discussing "free college"

    Stop deflecting Bliss.
     
  20. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    I'm giving away free Lamborghinis. Oh they are not available, sorry.
     

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