Hosts of Guys We F*****D Podcast Catching Heat

TDK is full of hidden contradictions. He debated me for having a crush on Hope Solo because she beat up her nephew in a real fist fight. I never said I wanted her to hit me. That's never been my thing. I just pointed out that I wouldn't be intimidated by her.

Yet look at him.

Lol

 

How's that a contradiction though? Lol

 

Fuck outta here. And you like to be called nigga in bed LMAO.

When you put those together sounds like you role play as submissive slave.

Hahahaha!

 

I think a lot of also comes down to feeling comfortable in the spaces these guys occupy. The bad bitch boss bitch ghetto routine won't fly at a medical conference or a bitcoin meet up. Another reason everyone else it outpacing us outside of over policing. Smart and nerdy is sexy everywhere else except the black community. A life of danger and struggle is considered the norm

 

That was some younger taboo shit. I don't see how that's different than women who like having their ass slapped and being called whore or bitch. Some girls like being peed on and go right to their corporate job afterwards. Everyone has some kink

 

If you want you could also say some women just like guys that treat them bad in general. That would be true as well. So that's no different than you?

Lol

 

You have to understand him. Real fist fight is too much. Just a slap is sufficient for him.
Anyway, I think sometimes TDK is just in the mood for a good debate for its own sake;-)

 

A slap across the face is abuse. It all started when he was being hard on women that hit men in relationships. He tried to make me out as being Soo bad for not feeling sorry for the guys and just laughing at the issue.

So this is why I laugh TDK. It's a joke.

 

Of course there's a difference. Just saying kink doesn't equal abuse or disrespect. Nuance and tone exist do they not?

 

I don't recall this. I need some context

 

There was no sexual context before you mentioned being slapped. Now you're just bullshitting or you're the first college educated guy that doesn't know how to communicate

 

More accurately you need a reason for having a poor memory. I suggest smoking weed.

 

ok if you say so

 

Hahahaha!!
Between you pulling your erect penis out, pointing to it and asking her, "what are you goinna do about this?"...to making women call you the n-word in bed.. to getting slapped in the face, l don't know whether to laugh or cry at your sex game.
I know the visual is burned in my brain.

 

If I have a friend with benefits. Would you assume everything I did with her was in the bed?

We ate pizza.
We watched avengers.
We played poker.
We worked out.

Would you assume all this took place during sex?

So when you say you liked girls that slapped you it's the same principle.

 

I remember that thread. The argument was about whether there’s a difference between men beating women and vice versa. He claimed there’s no difference because women want to be treated equally so it’s equally abuse and you said there’s a difference because a woman doesn’t have the physical possibility of doing as much harm to you as vice versa so a man can basically control how much physical harm is being done to him. Right?
Anyway, it’s true TDK has not specified the context in which he used to enjoy being slapped. However the general drift of the thread was sexual preferences so I just assumed it was in that context and not just random slapping.
As for debating, I totally get that part. It’s the Political Science conditioning. We all like debating for its own sake. Is it not so @The Dark King ?

 

They can keep the ones who handle themselves and have sexy careers like drug dealer, rapper or baller and send the ones with the birth control and the non-sexy career like medicine our way;-)
Wait, medicine is not sexy? I’m yet to meet a black Dr who has trouble finding a wife. But anyway.

 

Sort of.

The main thing I was saying in that thread was that if a man doesn't leave an abusive relationship then there is no reason I should have sympathy for him.

It's one thing for a man to get beat by a woman once. For him to stay in an abusive relationship is something entirely different.

It's more complicated for a woman to be in that situation.

 

Ok if you say so. That's not what happened but you're free to think as you like.

 

Well.
1. I do not support women being physically violent in anyway towards their partners, except if it’s actually a mutually agreed on bedroom-activity.
2. I think when there are men who do not leave a physically abusive relationship then it’s for the same reason women don’t do it, which is the woman is exercising some sort of emotional control over him, he doesn’t want to let go of the relationship (especially a LT one, maybe with kids), maybe he’s psychologically dependent on the woman...there are all types of relationship dynamics out there. Not all men are psychologically stronger than women, just because they are physically stronger. Ideally anyone, male or female, would leave the situation and draw their own boundary.
However, I don’t think that’s the kind of scenario TDK was talking about.