They all dumb as hell. They thought he was gonna co-parent with them? That's what your desperate ass wants with this stranger? That fool is dumb as hell and deserves to get his check fucked. And these busted bitches need Jesus(I'm not even religious). Cheesin' n' shit. Proud to be a single mom, eh? I hope they never a sucker to stay with them and their fuckery.
I wonder how the law works for this situation. He was sort of acting like a sperm bank, but if they didnt sign forms releasing him from liability, i imagine that he is quite vunerable to getting sued. For that he is the dumbest man in history. Its gonna take an incredible amount of luck to avoid a lawsuit. This is a professor in NY? It goes to show that common sense cant be taught.
I agree with most of your post, K, but this is just a tiny fraction of women. The fact this story is being covered in the media makes it seem like a bigger phenomenon than it really is. MOST women want their child to know who their father is, and a sperm donor isn't cutting it. It's crazy that even a fraction of women are living this way, but I wouldn't use this as an indictment against women generally. IMO it would be like someone posting a story about female prostitution on this board, then declaring the story offers some insight into women as a group. I think these are trashy women who either want a light skinned or smart baby, don't see many opportunities for this to happen IRL and decided to fuck the bullshit and take the easy route. And I bet you most of these kids at some point are gonna try and track down to find out who their birth father is.lol
I know more than a few White dudes who had mixed kids out of wedlock who still have custody. If you watch closely, Tom Brady after his SB wins almost always has his biracial niece on the field with him, even though Brady's sister had his niece out of wedlock with a BM.
I get this is an extreme and it's sensationalized. And I also realize I may be a bit jaded given that I live in CA and see all sorts of crazy things on a regular basis. Unfortunately things like this are becoming more normalized as we go along. All the crazy crap on "reality tv" is getting worse by the moment and we are seeing that people's behavior is getting increasingly worse. There is a difference between right and wrong and if we keep acting like there isn't and we should just all tolerate whatever goes on, then it's going to continue to increase.
ah I see. Well, actually when it comes to "transracial" adoption (I HATE that term) there is quite a good percentage of wm who adopt "transracially". However, I really think it's mostly at the urging of their wives who often go the "transracial" route because they are desperate and it takes much longer and is much more expensive to adopt white children. There are also those who are on the save the world kick, or religious thing that are out adopting lots and lots of children from various countries. Also gay white men adopting will often go transracial as it's easier for them to adopt that way.
It doesn't sound like there was any agreement. Doesn't he actually have to sign the both certificate or something? I highly doubt he agreed to it. As unhappy as his marriage was, he wasn't gonna leave his wife and three children to help raise a kid with some broke down bitch he nutted in at Target. He's dumb but not dumb enough to legally or emotionally latch on to that fuckery. I think those chicks want to keep him around because they think college professor makes hella money or they think he'll be able to use his influence(if he has any) to get their kids into a good college.
I think that signing the birth certificate is only relevant when the man isn't the biological father. A judge can issue a court order for a man to take a dna test. It would be no point to that if guys could get off by simply not signing the birth certificate. If you don't respond to the court order the judge can establish paternity by legally declaring you as the father. You would then be financially responsible. Each state may vary somewhat but thats the general gist of it.
The thing is too that even if they have some sort of agreement where he is not responsible, that can be overridden - it happens all the time. A mom may say "I don't want child support" (or anything else) and the judge can come in and say too bad, it's every parents responsibility to support their child no matter what the agreements and situations. It's about the child. In regards to his being a professor, some colleges offer free education for the children of professors. I'm not even going to try to pretend I have any clue why any of these people would be doing this stuff!
Those women with mixed babies.... will be celebrities in the Black community. People will drop what they are doing just to say run up to her and say....."chile that is one pretty baby". We ass backwards and proud of it.
No, that's not the point he's making. Light skin is unfortunately seen as more attractive than dark skin, even in the black community