Just want to say that one of my exes had a pretty small penis and this myth was really tough for him. We already lump a lot of self esteem issues on guys with smaller penises, now add on top of that he's black and it was really hard for him. He told me that when we first slept together that he was afraid I'd be super disappointed because white girls expect/hope for big dicks when they get with a black guy.
How was the sex between y'all? That sucks for him, he must of had mad anxiety every time it came to sex. I used to be insecure about my dick in my teens because of porn and how females talk of their ex bf's 15 inch dicks all the time. Relating to the thread, at one period in my life I was seeking out strictly white BBW's for head because in my past they gave the best head, I was let down time after time to the point I gave up and went back to jacking off to porn instead.
OMG 15 inch dick - NO thanks! Cracks me up the whole thing about how this or that group gives the best this or that. It's an individual thing and it also depends on the person they are with at the time. Lots of factors come into play.
The sex was good. Not just okay, but good. I have pretty strong feelings about this, so if you wanted to get a girl's opinion who does not just say "size doesn't matter," here you go: I think the only time when size is a legit problem is if you are really, really big (let's say 9'' plus) or really, really small (let's say 3'' or less). Everything in between has its benefits. Big guys can feel good when they fill me up, but it can also be uncomfortable sometimes and can be sore after. Smaller guys don't fill me up like that, but they also can take me in any position we want to do it and we can go at it for much longer. If I had to pick between a very big guy and a very small guy for a one night stand, I'd probably take the big guy. If we're talking a relationship, I'd probably take the smaller guy, because we're likely to be having sex many times a week. My husband falls in to the category of "very big" without being huge, and to be honest if I could magically change things I'd probably make him a little smaller so he was just slightly bigger than average. Sex with him can be hard because quickies can hurt when I don't have time to get in to it and sex with him occasionally leaves me sore, so it means I'm rarely in the mood to get it on two days in a row. I can cum from his dick but I could also cum from a dick that was quite a bit smaller. One last thing: the one really huge guy I was with was white. Hopefully this honesty doesn't hurt anyone's feelings!
Women who genuinely LOVE the D and sucking on it give the best BJs. I know plenty of WW and women in general who only sucked dick because their partner wanted it, not because they honestly enjoyed doing it. If you got a woman who gets wet from GIVING head, keep her.
In my experience white girls give better head. I think they are a lot more free. Actually come to think of it all the white girls I've had sex with were enthusiastic and really enjoyed themselves. Rarely did I ever hear "I don't do that"
I lurve sucking on the blaque D. Visually perfect. In all ways. Could never get enough of it. The look on his face - priceless.
I can't talk for other women, but I am willing to more or less accommodotate any wishes my lover got. So " I don't do that" isn't part of my sexual vocabular.
Yup. It's right up there with the BBC stereotype, which means it's based on some truth. I've had some great BJs from non WW, but for the most part the WW I've known either had head game that was next level, or they were enthusiastic as shit to go down on the D. Put it this way, I've never had a WW I was messing with who was going for the gold(!!) tell me NOT to cum in her mouth. Nowadays I think most women realize giving great oral is an essential skill to have.lol
Soooooo ya man tells you to say "fuck me with your big N****r dick you filthy animal!" while dicking you down, you with it?
Going back to the race stuff we were talking about earlier, this is basically how I feel about it having talked through it with my ex who liked that stuff. Sex is really the only time when I sort of accept having my logical/rational brain turned off and whatever primitive, base desires I have turned on. I like to be spanked when having sex with my husband: what does that say about me? Does it mean I have daddy issues or something, deep down? Maybe my subconscious wants to be punished for something? I don't know, there is no logical explanation. It just turns me on. Sex isn't about logic, it's about what feels good, and I've decided not to get judgey when someone has crazy kinks, even if I don't share them. If somebody else likes to get chained up and beaten or caged like an animal, that's not for me, but more power to them, I guess. I'm no angel in the bedroom either -- glass houses and stones. So if my husband wanted me to slap him in the face because that got him off? That's not my thing, but he enthusiastically indulges my things, so I'd be happy to return the favor, whatever he likes. Same would be true if he wanted me to dirty talk about his black cock in the bedroom or something.