Of course he shall pay CS, but when that is said, it seems like there is a trend were women that has nothing going on for themselves plot to get pregnant by ballers/musicians because they want their money. I mean look at the Dwight Howard case. Anyway, Drake doesn't look like someone a woman should cross when it comes to his children to me. I believe that if this is Drakes child he will go for full custody because he doesn't want his son raised by a woman who got pregnant looking for a paycheck.
Well that's a big slap in the face to a lot of hard-working single mothers who were left holding the baby, so to speak, never to hear from the man again and thus never receiving one penny of support from him, nor from the government... who raised their children from birth, to leaving the nest. Seriously, how could you even conjure up that comment without stopping to think of the millions of mothers raising children on their own as we speak?
Really? So essentially remove this child from his mother's life because the father is mad at her ? You think that kind of spite is productive and healthy to the life of a child? Furthermore, you think a man with an erratic busy lifestyle is going to be more condusive to a stable upbringing, than a mother who is there for her child at all times? Remember also, he wanted her to abort it and she did not.
Why though? He showed in the texts he didnt wan't it. What then makes you think he is the type to go for full custody to spite her?
Because he seems like a man that needs to be in control and he would not be if the child lives with the mum.
Because we aren't talking about everyday people and I feel zero sympathy for people who have 100% control over the situation. Men have no such control. You decide for us if we are fathers or not
Nope you decide whether or not we can go in raw. Remember we're required to ask consent. And even if that were the case you agree to it. It's a 50/50 decision yet you retain 100 percent of the power when it comes to choosing if I'm parent or not.
So perhaps mutual agreements beforehand in the form of signed cards - You both agree that if she becomes impregnated by you, you are absolved of responsibility, et al. Honestly, I think it would cut down on a lot of unscrupulous sex and unwanted pregnancies because people's true colors would come out, along with major second thoughts.
So take responsibility for your own destiny and don't go raw with a woman you don't see as the mother of your child even if she says it is ok. That should not be difficult for a grownup man.
Ok ladies take responsibility of your own destiny. Avoid being a single mother. Choose better don't lay with a man who you don't see being a father.
I don't know why people get so worked up over all this shit. There are consequences for our actions and in these cases people know what they are getting into. If dude really did have a vasectomy then unless he didn't do his followups, the chances of this kid being his is 0. If you don't want to get tied to some chick for the rest of your life then don't be doing stupid shit. Yes, I know that people can't seem to control themselves and we have all done our dirt, but come on when you are someone in that position you know that people are trying to get at you at every turn. In regards to whether or not he wants the kid...people say all sorts of shit about aborting (women too) and placing for adoption, it's not theirs, etc and then when the baby is born things change. You can't know what the outcome will be until it happens. He very well may want custody and he very well may get it. I'm a single mother. I wasn't irresponsible. I was married and all my children were planned and chosen. I chose to have children with a man who I thought would be a good father and while I may not always agree with him, he definitely does the very best he can and overall has done a great job. Once you have that child, it's NOT about you, it's about the child. Things in life don't always go the way we plan or hope for....you deal with it the best you can. EVERY parent is responsible for their child....financially and otherwise. Do men get screwed over...yep. And guess what we all know that. So then don't be putting yourself in that position. There are plenty of women who have babies with men they know are shady and aren't going to be there....yet they do it anyway and then want to whine when he's gone.
It was a rumor years ago, and really, what young man just out of his teens, gets one? He was not as popular then as he is today to warrant such a drastic measure. Furthermore, he would not have texted Sophie to abort it, and it would have been alluded to in his lawyer's statement who declared that if he is the father he will be a responsible father and take care of his child.