Is it fair that women have all the POWER in the dating/mating game and men have none ?

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FromUKNHereToPlay said:
She's not average. She's way above average bro

She may be average in terms of rating her against the baddest women out there, but there is no way in hell she's average with women across the board.

In fact on second reflection, she's an attractive women period, think your being very hard on her
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Super duper average. Theirs women on this website completely shitting on her and these are your normal average every day women.
 
FromUKNHereToPlay said:
Brilliant post.

"I think the disconnect women have is they can't always get the quality of dick they want"

That's the main point.

Women see it like they really hungry, but 90% of the food is stale and gone bad. Who wants to eat stale food ? But even that shows men have to bring more to the table and more is expected of men.

But I think it's more the social side that makes women reluctant to have sex with men so quickly. So they make men jump through a load of hoops, make him wait and the guy has to sit back and just hope he get's some ass. That's the current set-up we have now in the dating game.
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Doesn't have to be fam. Seek out different kinds of women actually go out and have conversations with women. So many of them are yearning for a decent guy to show interest in a non gross way. Just start with hello even start with hey I'm trying to be better at talking to women care to have a three minute conversation? A lot of men just need to get more comfortable talking to women and relinquish expectations. Our biggest road blocks are what we think might happen vs what actually does.
 
Since1980 said:
What you said. There was an article written about this a few years ago and what you said is exactly what happened. Even a woman who's considered to be average looking will get much more attention from men that the most attractive man will ever get from women. I've seen profiles where women state outright "I get a lot of messages and I can't respond to them all" or something along those lines.

Not to mention that paying for sex is still very much illegal in most states lol. If we have to take into account illegal activity in order to make the conversation seem balanced then that's a problem in and of itself.
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Lol word. If the only way men can get sex at the rate a woman can is by paying for it then there you have it women have it far easier since all they need to bring to the table is sex.

Here is one thing I will say where men have it far easier is finding genuine connection and mates who care. As long as most men are willing to be engaged and moderately thoughtful then can keep a woman's attention. For women it's a little more difficult because a lot of what sustains us happens outside the relationship (work money success). Also our eyes wander a lot sexually. My woman is the amazing person I've ever encountered but even sometimes wonder about new women I might meet, hell I often say thank God for porn since it keeps my appetite in check. What I'm getting at is we all have our challenges.
 
4north1side2 said:
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Super duper average. Theirs women on this website completely shitting on her and these are your normal average every day women.
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Depends on who you see regularly and who you have access to. Just because you slay dragons without trying don't mean every dude can take on a bear homie.
 
She did the typical "show of the goods" pose. put on a cake ton of make up to make her face look clear and youthful, poke out her lips so it looks like she has DSLs, let her tittys hang a little so she seems bustier than she really is. If you only saw the first pic you'd think she was above average but looking at the striped dress pic you can see she looks average.
 
The Dark King said:
Depends on who you see regularly and who you have access to. Just because you slay dragons without trying don't mean every dude can take on a bear homie.
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This isn't about slaying chicks, it's strictly about looks. That chick ain't ugly, but she isn't above average either. Almost every single woman who graced this forum makes her look ugly looks wise.


K said:
Hey now...be nice to us fat ugly bitches with lots of kids. Funny how more of them are wifed up too.
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Dudes be having low self esteem along with opportunistic baby boy personalities.
 
RicardoCooper said:
^^^Triggered
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I was playing, but I do actually have a point in that. My point being that what is "fat" "ugly" etc to one is not to another. And truth be told, I'm very clear that there are men who have said all of those things and more about me, just as I'm very clear there are men who have said all sorts of really positive things about me. The same things that are a turn off to one person are a turn on to another. So, yah anyone can get with someone....may need to get more realistic about the expectations, may need to re-evaluate yourself, etc. but it's possible.

People on this forum are very quick to judge who's with who and who's better than another, but they really have no clue. They are going by a picture and they have no idea what brought the 2 together let alone what keeps them together. I've just never gotten the fascination with all that. It's not like it will have any impact on what happens with them or who they end up getting with.
 
K said:
I was playing, but I do actually have a point in that. My point being that what is "fat" "ugly" etc to one is not to another. And truth be told, I'm very clear that there are men who have said all of those things and more about me, just as I'm very clear there are men who have said all sorts of really positive things about me. The same things that are a turn off to one person are a turn on to another. So, yah anyone can get with someone....may need to get more realistic about the expectations, may need to re-evaluate yourself, etc. but it's possible.

People on this forum are very quick to judge who's with who and who's better than another, but they really have no clue. They are going by a picture and they have no idea what brought the 2 together let alone what keeps them together. I've just never gotten the fascination with all that. It's not like it will have any impact on what happens with them or who they end up getting with.
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Strange how peeps think they can change facts by writing long paragraphs lol

Happy New Year, K, you are well-liked here
 
The Dark King said:
Can't believe this is an argument lol
Of course women can get sex far easier than a man can.
I think the disconnect women have is they can't always get the quality of dick they want and they weirdly think men have a better chance of finding quality women because they think quality women are abundant based on their close circle of women in their life who have a hard time meeting men they want.
Online dating is the greatest litmus test ever. You put two profiles, one an attractive male and the other an average looking female both looking for casual encounters. Wait 24 hours and see whose inbox lights up like a Christmas tree.
Saying men have the option to pay for sex is a limited and flawed perspective. For one the assumption is every man has the disposable income to pay for sex. Half the country lives in poverty and not everyone has 500 dollars + to pay for sex and at that rate how often can you reasonably afford to have sex. Secondly since when can't women pay for it if they want to?
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I just browsed my local Backpage listings to be sure after seeing that line in your post. I assure you escorts are a lot more affordable than that.
 
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