Do you prefer your man to be tall or short?

Good for you man.

 

Im just waiting for some of the tall men to come on here and say "hell yah we get more play" lol

 

That isn't me. I am only 5'11". whether you are 8 foot 9 or 4 foot 3, you have to be attractive or it doesn't work.

 

I know there are some who really have a big thing about height. (maybe there are men who really have a thing about wanting tall or short women too IDK). I've dated men from 5'6 to 6'9 and I may have a bit of a preference but height is not even in the realm of priorities for me. My preference in that area is just a nice extra.

 

I know some dudes wish they were taller, but tall guys have trouble putting on muscle. I have no problems with that at my height. Besides, I'm tall where it counts.

 

LMAO

In character - right?!

Well come on 5'11 isn't short by any means. I know some guys on here have said things about chicks who have a thing about 6' (or even 6'2) and over though. Too me why bother with a female like that.

 

Like I mentioned before. I don't approach women, so it easily weeds out those who have a height preference.

 

That because women get sex much easier than men. Thus women get to play out of their league. They generally can't get men out of their league to commit to them, which is what they're really after. This is why get hurt by men and think badly of men because they are constantly chasing men out of their league but those men see these women as hump and dump material

And the ironic part is they get less attractive as commitment material to all men, not just the ones out of their league, when they play fast and loose. Men just hate the fact that women have the power to go out and get laid so easily, which I'll admit is a neat little trick I wish I possessed. To men that ability would heaven on earth, but for women it's truly a double edged sword.

Take a woman that is semi attractive. Take this women that I just lifted from the net



She's somewhat cute, but nothing out of the ordinary, so say at the end of the night at the bar before the lights turn on. A man is buzzed, nights looking lonely, and this girl is around. He does not see any other prospects and feel like getting laid so "hey, better than nothing tonight."

Now pretend youre a good looking guy in great shape with a good career. Pretend she really doesn't have much going for her other than semi average looks after you're 10 drinks deep at 2 am.

Well, many of these "semi average girls" can DEFINITELY get lots of decent guys to smash them, but for most guys who know what they are doing and have a lot going for them, they would never date her.

So what's the problem? Well, these girls start to think they are HOT. They slept with several of the hottest guys at the gym.

All of a sudden they are still 6's but have the self esteem of 9's.

They turn into b*tches. They do it as a defense mechanism. They don't want to face the reality that while these guys will bang them, that's all they will ever be.

Often you will see these girls months or years down the road with a guy who seems on par with them.

This is just a specific example but I have gone to clubs and bars for MANY years many times a week and got to know a LOT of people, and that would happen a lot. At one point I lived in one of the fattest cities in the UK and it was wretched how women "only" 20lbs overweight thought they were soooo hot lol.

And even worse nowadays unlike 30 or so years ago, you have all these dating apps, to make women gasses up women's ego even more. I guess the best advice for women is to just have sex with guys in their own league then they wont be disappointed when these hot guys don't want to marry them.

 

I just have to wonder if they could really tell the difference between 5'11 and 6'.....maybe they get out the tape

 

Most women can't tell the difference in my experience, as I am only half an inch away (5' 11.5" to be exact). But, the women who are really in to height are looking for 6'3" and above.

 

That's more genetics than just being tall. I'm short and can barely put on muscle.

 

They can't tell dick size so I doubt they can tell exact height. They just need tall.

 

Oh? Well, it can be difficult for ectomorphs. The thing about skinny guys is that if you put on a small amount of muscle it will look bigger because it will be ripped.

 

interesting.

I think the thing that may be missing here is there is really no universal levels....what one person considers a 6 is a 9 to another and so on. But here's the thing - why do you care? Why not just approach those you are interested in and not worry about the rest of it? or for those who won't approach (which I always question if that's REALLY true) then only deal with those you are interested in.

 

Lol!

 

LOL, I was going to say that! HAHA. I decided against it though.

 

good point.

Tall is relative too. I've met men who were over 6' who seemed shorter and shorter men who I thought were taller than they are. I'm barely 5'4 and people always think I'm taller than I am until I'm standing next to them and then they go on about how they didn't realize I was so short.

 

That's how it is with me. I put on a decent amount of muscle but people say I got buff as fuck. I'm only 165-170.

 

It's a lifestyle man. Some days I really don't feel like eating all of this chicken and rice and protein shakes.