What is good sex to you? Ladies , is it the size of the ship? How he slings it (stroke you and eat you skills) Guys, is it that she can suck it or and shape of her body? The feel of her pussy (side note : have you ever notice the crazier the woman the better the pussy)
It's all of it. Great sex (not "good sex") though is about being more than just physical...it's more about the connection and also about consistency. It isn't so great if things are good once in a blue moon and not the rest of the time. People always are talking about ONE time. One good/great time is nice, but it's much more important how things are ongoingly.
I just think there is a difference between "good" and "great". What defines "good" would be different than "great" for me, so I wanted to make that distinction. Good sex could simply be cause he's hitting all the right spots, has a really good oral game, or whatever skills. It could be a one time thing. To me, great is more than that.
I don't think good or great sex can be so easily defined. Sex is highly subjective. What works with one person to make it spectacular, may NOT work with another person. It just depends on the chemistry and compatibility of the people involved. And like K said, it's much more than just the physical act. So much plays into it that I don't think it can be easily defined or pinned down. As an aside, I was at dinner with a couple of women the other night and we were talking about the "Fifty Shades" trilogy and I said I didn't think the sex scenes in the book were anything at all and were rather dull and boring and I couldn't understand how so many women were going gaga over them. One of the women agreed with me and told me if I wanted hot sex scenes, I should read Anne Rice. The other woman looked at me and said, wow, you must have had great sex then. I just shrugged my shoulders. What's hot to some is not to others.
If I have to mop my kitchen floor Wash my sheets Pick anything up off the floor Clean up any broken items Untie any tight knots Have any bruises Have to try to get knots out of my hair If my throats hurts If my Legs/Arms/Buttox hurt Lol