Is the term "Becky" racist against white women?

Not so much the red hair, but the freckles, I have them all over my body and would get teased. I stopped being self-conscious about it years ago once I realized that more people find it attractive and they were just being a-holes.

 

It seems that some Caucasians, Asians and others deem "pale white" to be the ultimate in race purity. Freckles are often times an issue for those "puritans"...

However, I've always liked freckles. I think they are sexy. I guess because black people rarely have them (they do...not only light, but brownskinned people too). I think most redheads have freckles.

Generally, I think there have been many changes to what white men find attractive. As a teen, a pretty white girl with a big butt wouldn't get many dates. Same thing for if she had thicker lips and even a curvy figure. I think many girls in school tried their best to make their asses look flat just to avoid being scrutinized.

Thank you, Scott and John...not a prob for us black dudes :smt050

Nowadays I see so many white girls with sexy asses that I often wonder if they are fake/enhanced? I'm not talkin' thick women with juicy butts...I'm talkin' slim women with apple bottoms. I swear I don't know where they've all come from?:smt017 ...but I'm very happy about it

 

The word Becky isn't a term of endermeant

 

Funny you say that when I think back to childhood my first crushes were on girls with freckles like Andy from the Goonies, that red head girl from Monsters(Kiersten) with Fred Savage, Punky Brewster.

 

She was pretty cute then but I'd say that she's even better looking now:

 

Thanks Darkw. People can say some really mean shit. I used to have body image issues, people would joke about me having freckles on my privates. Finally I said screw it and learned to love myself and not care about who may or may not like my freckled boobs and I began enjoying relationships.

 

Why do you have "B*cky" censored in your signature like it's a curse word? :smt042

 

You seem to have blossomed into a beautiful lady (freckles and all)...or at least all the men on this site think so :smt042 ...I saw your pics, their responses and I would have to agree. However, I can't imagine that you didn't have lots of suitors throughout your life?

 

im just goofing on beyonce i dont think its a bad word

 

i do now but it was rough before college

 

So, what change did you make?

Children are oblivious to differences until about 9...then, after that, it gets rough throughout HS. College can be more of the same or an official turning point. I'm not sure what it is...probably all of the sex - lol.

 

I began running and lost a lot of weight, and I went to a very very liberal/small/middle of no where school in Maine where everyone was friendly

 

Why don't you take a seat right here

http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?p=1022149