Real, Not, & What Would YOU Do??

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by K, May 9, 2016.

  1. flaminghetero

    flaminghetero Well-Known Member

    ^^^^^^
    We got ourselves a serial farter,ya'll.
     
  2. K

    K Well-Known Member

    Bring Your Kid on a Date

    They agree to meet at a Chinese Restaurant. You arrive a bit early and sit down. Your date arrives with a child in tow having never said anything about bringing their child. The child is VERY excited to meet you. You're shocked. The kid grabs your hand and pulls you over to his favorite table talking about how this is their favorite restaurant and what he's going to order. Your date doesn't say much. You go ahead and sit down. The kid is asking you all sorts of questions and talking about all sorts of things. He then tells you how his parent promised that you were going to all go back to their house and watch a movie and that he gets to pick the movie.

    Real or not? And how would you handle it?
     
  3. K

    K Well-Known Member

    Family Pictures

    You go out with someone several times. They live a couple of hours away. They have come out to where you live. It's the first time you are going to their home. You drive down, they greet you, you go out to dinner. Things seem to be good. You go back to their place and your hanging out and you are looking at the pictures on the wall and realize that they have family pictures on the wall, complete with their ex-spouse. These are posed pictures of the family on their living room wall. They were probably taken in the last couple of years. They have been divorced for 11 years. The person tells you they have the pictures there like that for the kids and further tells you that they all go on vacations together every year.


    Real or not? And what would you do?
     
  4. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    Lol it's True

    I'll play along for the time being for the kids sake but we it's time for us to roll to they house, I'm going my separate way.
     
  5. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    *shrug it off* get pussy and anticipate the fuckery that's coming soon
     
  6. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    Not real (hopefully lol!). As a parent, I'm super reserved in who meets my kids and I'd be taken aback if someone chose to bring their child to our date (assuming this is like a brand new thing?). I love kids, but it's not appropriate (imo) to have your kids meeting every joe blow (or jane blow lol) that you have dinner with. In the grand scheme of things, I want someone who values their child's feelings as much as I value mt kids feelings, and exposing them to random dates (which if he does with me, I'd assume he's done with others), isn't something I'd appreciate.
     
  7. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    Real (I have a friend who's parents are both remarried but they all do every holiday and vacation together, so the story's plausible lol).

    I'd be OUT tho!! That's just too close for comfort for me. Boundaries need to be in place and if you have recent family photos I'd question the potential for feelings still being there. Too many fish in the sea for that kind of headache.
     
  8. K

    K Well-Known Member

    Walmart Starbucks

    You agree to meet someone at Starbucks. When you talked on the phone they were going on and on about how they really wanted you to try some sort of drink they get there that you haven't had before. So you say, ok. You get there and it's really busy inside. They are sitting down at a table back in the corner. You go over say hi and sit down. You talk a little bit and they say "oh I have something for you" they reach under the table and pull out a 4 pack of starbucks drinks they had bought at Walmart. They tell you they will be right back. They get up and go ask for a cup of ice and come back. As they are going back to their chair they kiss you.

    Real or not? And what would you do?
     
  9. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    Not real lol. You had me until the kiss though! I would give dude every benefit of the doubt with bringing his Walmart Starbucks into Starbucks lol but don't kiss me. I'm big on personal space until I know you & am comfortable with you. Nothing turns me off quicker than a random dude trying to put his hands (or mouth) on me. Respect my body, respect my space, period. Buh bye.
     
  10. K

    K Well-Known Member

    Famous or Infamous?


    You have been dating someone for a few months. They tell you that they are an open book and how they once had a job that was in the public eye. Something comes up about if either of you have ever "Googled" yourself and they say they hadn't but again they are an open book and have no problem if someone were to do it. You go ahead and Google them hoping to find pictures from when they used to work in public. The first thing that comes up is a newspaper article of their arrest about a year ago, complete with their picture. In reading the article you come to realize that most of what they told you is a lie.

    Real or not? What would you do?
     
  11. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    :smt005

    Not real. I'm out btw. :smt043:smt043:smt043
     

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