Australian women & black men

That's the same shit my friend said on our annual boys vacay two years ago. We were in New Orleans, strolling down Bourbon St, drinks in hand. We had decided to call it a night and start heading back toward the hotel, but we ran up on this place where a bunch of hot girls were dancing. Me and another friend were trying to convince him to stop for a bit, and he actually mentioned that "i'm tired" stuff. We were both looking at his ass like he was crazy.

 

Perhaps your friend was also afraid of the situation. Attractive single girls in a group. Maybe their boyfriends were not far away and they would respond violently at the sight of a guy, especially a black guy talking to his girlfriend. Perhaps it was a honey trap established by the KKK or other hate groups. Or the girls were a crew of grifters. You can't dismiss those possible scenarios. Better safe than sorry, I guess.

 

Lol. Bourbon St is wild. I got hit in the head by a set of beads n it hurt like a bitch. Too rowdy. I much prefer Beale St in Memphis. But yeah who knows what the girls motives were. Maybe it was a fair call on his part. I guess you ll never know lol. But a MAN saying he's too tired? Isn't that 99.9% unheard of?

 

Very possible. However.... knowing my friend.... I'd bet my mortgage that this was more of the usual from him. At one point some years ago he expressed that his confidence was shot, and was open to our suggestions and such. We've set him up in plenty of situations where he'll do everything right except the important part.... Get the phone number.

It is wild. I don't need to be part of the Mardi Gras stufff, but a regular weekend is lively enough to enjoy.

 

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I never realised there was such a predominance of gays lol. I don't recall coming across anyone straight. How old is your friend? That's sad to hear. This is ur bi-racial friend hey? Maybe he isn't blessed down south and comes up with excuses do you think? Let me hook him up with a sweet Aussie gal lol.

 

He often has us shaking our heads, and wondering what really is the problem.

Naw - That dude does well for himself, but he's way modest about it. The friend who seems to be stuck at the start gate is actually Asian, but his preference is WW.

Also... Love the avatar. Whew!

 

Lol. Yep. Not blessed down south. So they say anyway... I've seen plenty of white women with Asians over here. But that could be a money thing. They're all doctors and dentists over here. Lol. Do WW over there not like the Asians?

Thanks. I dig a man in boots

 

OK - How about I realized the "Not blessed down south" after posting. You may be onto something. In fact...Someone else in our circle said the same. WW with Asian men is rather common here. I've seen this guy on social situations and even on the plnae talking to women, but he always seems to not get her number, and has some excuse of why he didn't go for it. If he was trying and getting turned down... that's one thing, but I just don't get it. That same year in which we went to New Orleans... On the plane returning t DC he was a row bheind me, and chatted up this nice looking young lady for nearly all of the flight. I'm still puzzled as to why he didn't at least try to arrange to see her again.

The boots thing... I'm just getting home from work and out of my Timbs.

 

There are a few WW who are married to Asian men here in this country. The only celebrity couple I know of is actress Kelly Caulfield and her husband Steve Park. They met on the show In Living Color.

I knew an interracial couple years ago in college. The woman was white and the man was Japanese. They were, if I could describe them, as opposite as they can be. But I think their attraction to each other was out of curiosity and how they saw each other on the surface. There were a lot of tensions in the marriage which didn't last long. He wanted her to lose weight so he had her on a diet. She was getting sick as well as losing weight. When the marriage ended, they went their separate ways. His ex met a guy and later married him. The last I remember of my friend from Japan was that he was moving to Australia. They were both good people but they didn't know each other well enough to know what they were getting into.

 

Hahaha. I mean that's just me generalizing. Not blessed down south doesn't just discriminate against the asian persuasion. It's across the racial board. My mrs palmer witnessed it first hand in Memphis lol and not with an Asian.

I'd hate to say it... but your boy may just like the deek secretly? Lol kidding. Not that I'd blame him if he did lol.

But yeah personally i dont want to get freaky with someone who feels like a woman. Frame wise. Asians are too small for my liking. My diet is strict. Chocolate only.

Maybe he's just scared of being shut down. Can't read body language and doesn't know if the woman is picking up what he's putting down? Or he's not wearing Timbs?

Let me call him. Get to the bottom of these countless possibilities hahah!!

No you can leave your Timbs on

 

Try before you buy i say. I too had a girlfriend who dated a korean. He too was controlling and did the same with the food limitations although she was already stick thin. He brought her wigs and shit to dress up for him. (I'm sure a little BDSM) played out too lol. Charming on the exterior though. I guess they feel they need some sort of power to make up for what they're lacking. There'd be a pretty big difference between cultures too. And you'd have to truly respect and acknowledge each others cultural ways. You get that in all cultures though. My first boyfriend was African and was a terrible experience. He was so rough and self centered i never knew enough about his culture and he didnt have time for anything but claiming to love god while acting like a right rough toss eating boiled chicken and rice every meal. Lol. Bottom line though always do your research lol.

 

Looking back at this situation, I think after the curiosity was satisfied, it all went downhill. They both sang in the chorus and there was tension between them when they entered the rehearsal hall. One night, the wife came to my job(I was working at Hardee's restaurant then). She looked weak and could barely walk. I had to do something. I ordered a combo meal for her. It began to rain. In that moment, her husband, my friend, walked in. He was drenched from head to toe and the look on his face said many things, but only in silence. He was surprised, shocked, disappointed and sad. He said that he was looking for her. I explained that I bought her the meal because I knew she was hungry. He nodded in understanding. He knew I wouldn't betray him. I couldn't know what he was thinking about his wife. I left them alone. They were divorced a month or so later.
I saw the wife and we talked about what happened. She was relieved that the marriage ended. This was her first marriage and she was a virgin when they married. She came out of it a little more wiser than before.

I met with her ex. He asked if there was anyplace where he could do his laundry. I told him that I needed to get my laundry done, also and I offered to invite him to my mother's house todo the laundry. He agreed and we drove to my mother's house. I introduced him to my mother and my aaunt's who live down the street. My cousin's boys saw him and remarked,"He must know Karate."
I heard that and laughed. I told him what my cousins said and he laughed to.
While the washer and dryer were running, he and I talked about the incident at Hardee's. Again, he understood my intentions but he felt that his ex was still a girl(she was 20, he was 31). He didn't feel that she had matured in any way. I wondered what it was that attracted these two. I guessed, from his perspective, a non- Japanese woman seemed appealing to him, especially if she's a blonde. From her perspective, he was different from other men and he shown interest in her. Could love be a factor? I didn't think so. It was a relationship that began with curiosity and maybe a little lust thrown into the mix.

 

You paint such a visual picture when you write. I dig it a lot. Almost sounded romantic... raining outside n all. I never have quite understood why people get married and divorced. I've never been married so don't know what it's like but..surely at some point you know it's not working. I know some people have the mindset that the relationship will smooth over once marriage is official but to be divorced so soon after marriage is so sad. But i feel your friend. That was destined to fail her being so young and him being so much older his expectations would have been so high and she would be wondering how it feels to make love to a different man. But that's it you live and learn. At least they'll never go in that direction again. It is sad. Marriage is such a huge commitment. And people change over time that's life. You'd be pretty lucky to find that one absolutely compatible person to share 'the rest of your life with' truly happy along the way all the way.

 

She has asked for privacy amid a cheating scandal involving her fiancé Nick Young.

But Iggy Azalea was quick to squash any thoughts that her wedding might be off after she was pictured without her engagement ring on her finger on Thursday, insisting it was just a fashion choice.

The 25-year-old rapper looked stylish as she made her way through LAX airport in a chic powder blue blazer and stylish jumpsuit.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbi...umpsuit-blazer-arrives-LAX.html#ixzz46djQ6UmY

 

Obviously canary yellow goes with grey and white as this star was back to accessorizing her outfit with a very important piece of bling.

Just a day after being spotted without her engagement ring, Iggy Azalea not only had it back on, she was making sure everyone saw it.

The 25-year-old and her $500,000 ring ran very conspicuous errands around Beverly Hills, California on Friday.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbi...espite-relationship-strife.html#ixzz46dlG2LId

 

Time will tell what happens between these two. I don't personally think it will last but good on her for forgiving him and trying to work it out. Loving her style in the photos though. Very classy.

 

I have seen this and other dramas in my lifetime. What I know about marriage, I learned from my parents. That is, what NOT to do. Seeing these dramas helped me to decide what kind of man I wanted to be. I understand that no one is perfect and that relationships, especially marriage, is work. I believe that when a couple make the decision to marry, it is a decision to accept the challenge to understand and accept one another as who they are and not what they should be in the image of the spouse. Marriage is NOT the wedding day. Marriage is NOT the honeymoon. Marriage is a continuous process that requires the couple's complete and unwavering attention.

Marriage is about LOVE.
Marriage is about COMPASSION.
Marriage is about PATIENCE.
Marriage is about UNDERSTANDING.
Marriage is about SHARING.
Marriage is about ACCEPTANCE.
Marriage is about TEAMWORK.
Marriage is about COMMUNICATION.

And many other meaningful things.

People have to understand what marriage is about before taking that leap.

 

I'm sorry to hear you had to be surrounded by the bullshit to realize what kind of person you refuse to be. I'm the same i knew from that that I'd never go for those kind of men and never wanted to get married which pretty much still stands to this day unless mr perfect lands in my lap and hopefully in a literal sense lol.

Marriage certainly is hard work. And I'm sure all the dynamics change once you're wed. Buf i guess if you have married the right person and they haven't been fronting the whole time prior to the big day, it shouldn't be too hard it should just be how it always was, minus freedom, a separate bank account, free of bling hand, constant questioning of your whereabouts lol. But at the end of the day tables turn, bridges burn, you live and learn lol. I think it comes down to the whole soul mate thing and maybe age/mentality plays a role in it too. I have soo many friends who got married at 20 and under and are divorced a couple of years on. It's almost like novelty over here the in thing to do. They don't take it seriously.

 

Great avatar Becca.