Have you ever said things to your lover that you regret

Okay, so you're have the choice of taking the red or the blue pill, huh? I understand learning one or two things, but what about the future?

 

The only way you will know about the future is to live it.

 

What I'm saying is that I don't feel it's my place to basically interview someone about their past. To a certain extent I think I have to trust my instincts/judgement as well as observations as we're getting to know each other. Please understand, I'm not just saying that the past is the past and that it doesn't matter. I just think with decent communication a potential couple can learn enough about each other to make informed choices about if there's a future for them or not. I have discussed prior relationships many times, but, that was a conversation that came along in due time. I do understand that one can learn some critical info during conversations, but I'm simply not into the prying thing.

 

Very true.

 

I could understand if you said your boyfriends sex game was wack and he ex husband knew how to rock your world but other than that, get over it. It's was a convo amongst friends, nearly everyone does it.

 

Nah, for me to share it would mean I'm proud of saying it. Anyway I'll give a example of my venom with a coworker.



Their was this lame ass low key racist 50 year old white dude at my old job who did maintenance for the hotel. He had very low self esteem and constantly bitches about how his wife who made way more money then him cheated on him but he got to pay child support which killed his pockets so he moved in with his parents.


Being a social outcast myself I took a liking to him and hang out with him at work from time to time. Everybody thought he was either weird or creepy as fuck. I would try to hook him up with ladies but he fucking froze up or always had something negative to say.


One day my girl was at my job with me. I was trying to spend as much time possible with her before she shipped off to the army. We chilling at this desk and she goes to the bathroom. Dave comes around and sits in her chair being cute but ignore him because she's gone. She comes back and he's still sitting there. I grow very irritated quickly by the disrespect.


I ask him nicely trying not to cause a scene "Dave can you please get up" he starts acting like a big ass kid saying why? He already knows who my girlfriend is so I start to see fire "Dave can you please get up, I'm trying to spend time with my girl" he says something but he ain't moving "Dave just get the fuck outta the chair Damn!!!!! That's why nobody fucking likes your loser ass"


Everybody in the lobby got quiet like :smt104


My girlfriend said "that was mean" but I was still heated "I don't give a fuck, even his own damn kids don't like him"



Dave avoided me like the plague at all costs since that day.

 

Yo that was foul to say but he brought that on hhimself.