Are foreign women REALLY better?

Goodlove,you must had been one fortunate person to get those German women in Munich(Oktoberfest),Frankfurt and other places. No question you lived there for a while. I, a visitor don't get much.

 

Not a lot. I didn't mean to come off as tho I was bagging them left and rt. I was OK at best.

 

A woman I knew from college dated and later married a man from Spain. She went to visit Spain and meet his family. She was surprised and humbled by the way things are done there. A siesta is a big deal. Even if a job isn't completed, it is done the next day. And spending time with family is also a big deal.

 

That's an interesting theory. I think there may be something to that.

 

Agreed. Nothing sexier than a confident man who chases who/what he wants.

 

Interesting reading about being confident and going after what you want. The very thing I'm reading here that some women say they want others would find offensive. I guess it all depends on who is being confident with you

 

I'm confident but don't chase.

 

then by the rule of women who never approach anyone ever you're not confident lol

 

Lol. That's crazy huh.

 

Or maybe I have it all wrong. (I think not).

 

I'm not chasing anyone anymore. It's not worth it. I'll be on my best behavior and treat women with respect, understanding, acceptance and compassion. I expect nothing in return.

 

This, I'm far too old for some kiddie chasing shit. Ain't a single woman out there special enough to "chase".

 

Just weird when someone judges you on something they themselves would never do loll
Didn't have to chase my woman funny enough she saw something in me that made her just want to talk to me. Imagine that lol

 

I think i totally used the wrong terminology there I'm good at that lol. If anybody has to do any 'chasing' then yes it's not worth it. It should be easier than that. What i meant was a man who approaches a woman first is sexy and shows confidence which is also sexy.

But you should expect as much as you give or more in return.

 

"Chasing" isn't sexy. My guy wouldn't chase any woman on earth. That is sexy to me. He's confident enough in himself to know his worth. The confidence I saw in him in the very beginning was him knowing what he wanted and without hesitation, going after it. He knew he wanted to take me on a date, he knew he wanted to hold my hand, he knew he wanted to kiss me...so he did. He took control of the situation...confidence. He wasn't a douche, he wasn't cocky about it, it wasn't that kind of control. It was him initiating what he wanted...if we were on the same page, great, but if not life would've gone on. I'm not sure if that makes sense but I'm trying to clarify what I think many women mean when we talk "confidence". I don't think there's anything wrong with finding confidence sexy. Nothing turns me off quicker than a meek, needy, timid, hesitant man. I don't think there's anything wrong with me judging how a man goes after what he wants, even though it's something I "never do". Just like I don't think there's anything wrong with you judging a girls blow job skills, even though it's something you never do.

 

Well stated by both. This has been said a million times before.

 

Oh really

 

I'm not big on the aggression/confidence thing.

 

Aggression .... No

Confidence is a different thing

 

You're right. I don't think I would like the confidence thing, either, though. I'm more into the "meeting of the minds" approach. Lol. Where she and I both kind of decide to embark on a relationship or date.

I like this approach.