women sex signals

Why do women make it so hard 4their gyz 2 know when they want s*x?

 

Maybe it's not as hard, you just have to read their Body Language

 

You're new to this forum lol, welcome ...I hope Ladies of the forum weigh in but a man only needs common sense to understand women and why they do the things they do. Bookworm616 once said: "A man needs thousand women to fuck a woman needs one man to fuck thousand times" lol. A woman will not give the cookie easily because she want more than sex out of the man she's attracted to, She wants the man's heart and ultimately a ring on her finger so the punani card is one women play very close to their chest the minute they play that card the nature of the relationship changes in favor of men now they are at our mercy. LOL




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I can't identify with this particular problem. If I want to be with someone I think he's knows it from the moment our eyes meet. If he's wondering then it's probably cause I'm not interested. I do want more than sex but don't get the strategy of "not giving the cookie easy" to get more. If anything I'd refrain from sex worried he'll want more after. lol

 

Well when it's with you, of course he'll be coming back for more.

 

ladies in the mood

I recently by accident came across a lonely gal on high libido. Be4 I tell what she was doing.to contain the heat. Ladies in the house tell us what you do when faced with the same case

 

My take on this; there could be lots of reasons;

- She does not because of possible harsh judgement of those around her, in some circles, women are judged and shamed for showing sexual desire, the old sexual double standard at work here.

- A past guy may have been scared off by her assertiveness in this, he was ignorant, had outdated ideas of how genders should express sexual desire. Some men want to be the chasers, and interpret a woman expressing her desire as a slut, desperate, and lose interest because they feel they can have her whenever they want; she is no longer a challenge. So she is now more careful and subtle about it.

- She was raised with old fashioned ideas about sexuality, that women are to be chaste, virgins etc, and afraid to show desires. She may have been punished badly for chasing a guy when she was a child, a strict religious upbringing etc.

- A woman may be dropping hints and the man is not paying close enough attention to body language, tone of voice etc, look of eyes, smiles etc. He needs it told directly to him.

- She may not be that into him.

hope that clears some of this up, give a few insights as to why.

 

I honestly think this is very simple. No need for games and/or strategies . It all starts with the kiss. If a man kisses a woman the way she likes, she will respond in a way that lets her lover know she is turned on and wants to continue. Personally, I have NEVER held my cookie back for strategy. If I'm into you, you will sense it by the way my body reacts to you. No big mystery.

 

There you go.

If things aren't very clear then she's either not really into you or she's into games. Either way...move on.

 

IF the woman allows the man to kiss her. How can the man know if the woman likes the way he is kissing her. Even a kiss can be deceptive.

 

I don't think a kiss is deceptive. I just think there are lots of people who have no clue how to read the situation and the other person.

It's all about tuning into the other person. You kiss her and how she kisses you back (responds) tells you how she likes to be kissed. It's a dance. If you kiss her softly and she pulls in passionately and/or slips the tongue then she's wanting it more like that. If you start off going in with the tongue and she's trying to kiss you softly then slow it down and back up a bit.

It actually starts before the kiss. The kiss and how the two people respond to each other is often where a woman will determine things though. But it really starts before that - is she looking into your eyes? is she turning towards you? moving closer, etc? or is she looking other directions, turning away from you, moving away? is she touching you? if you touch her, how is she responding? is she leaning in or moving away? Does she respond back or not?

The thing is that this flows throughout the interactions....a lot of people just go into automatic and try to do their "routine" rather than really connecting with the other person and staying connected.

 

If she like the kiss, you will get some type of positive feedback. (More kissing, extra touching, 2nd base, 3rd base, or maybe a home run)

 

When you're talkin' with her woman, when you find her playing with her necklace or rubbing her neck, she's definitely feelin' you...

 

I know some people may play silly games, especially as youngsters. However, I really don't think it's hard to tell. If a guy doesn't know by the end of the date, I'd guess that he's at least somewhat clueless. I know there will be exceptions, but usually it's at least somewhat clear. If we're clearly vibing for most of the date, that's definitely a good sign. Also I think the hug, kiss, and if there's other contact such as a hand holding really gives the guy decent signs of sex may happen, and/or she's definitely in to him, and would like to see him again.

 

When she is bent over and her pants are down, that is a good sign

 

Hey Balto how are you

 

I didnt read through all the responses(as usual) but one dead giveaway is when she finds the least opportunity to touch you on your shoulder or hands. That makes me have the filthiest thoughts while conversing with a woman when she does that.
Usual disclaimer: That was when i was single

 

A kiss can so be deceptive, I've had it happen to me a couple times and I've gave a few deceptive kisses.