I think you and I agree on the aspect of them owning bm and not allowed to date outside the relationship but basically when it comes to all aspects of the relationship (it dont have to be an intimate) they are suppose to have every aspect of a man without putting in the relationship. The old statement you here women say "what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine". Really that's every race but is more profound in bw. Let's not talk about divorce...oh geez