Some BM Still Intimidated by WW

yeah I get what you saying also what I'm talking about a setting the tone is Linda person know from the beginning with you about are you looking for a relationship or not and you're not here to play games that you say.

I kinda do it in a more subtle way but yeah it is known what I'm here for.

when a woman sees that more than likely she knows I'm a nice guy but I'm a nice guy with a backbone.

 

I have met a few. But it's like a needle in a haystack. My experience is that the overwhealming majority are like BFE stated.

That being said, BFE, you really should put your feelings in perspective. There are some good women out there who are looking for a good and decent man. If you approach those very, very, very few women who are good and have hearts, your frustration will come across to them as pure anger and vitriol and what could potentially be a good match for you may result in a missed opportunity.

Something to maybe reflect on if you so desire.

 

We are going to read about this fool on the news about shooting up some women in a drive by or mass killings whatever.

 

you have to remember when you have a situation like that there's going to be angry feelings on both sides trust me have you ever seen the guy say the mother of my child is a nice person. it can go both ways so just take with a grain of salt.

 

Jesus Christ, you really do hate women, don't you?

 

even TDK can't roll with the dude

 

...and then (allowing almost no time dust to collect) you once again pull out your saddle, affix it to my nuts and commence to ride.

I'm amazed with all the nuts you ride that you never get saddle sore!

 

Lol

Lol

Giddy up.

Lol

Now you see the light on bfe. I and others saw that a mile away. Tried to tell you.

 

Again not wrong especially the accountability part but man all that negativity ain't good for the heard fam

 

True.

But I say that about my daughters mother. I think she is a kind (albeit crazy) woman who was a great mom. She is a good and dear person to me and although we have not been together for in more than 30 years I still call her for her birthday every year and joke her about getting old and if I hit the lottery I would give her some of the earnings because I think she did a wonderful job with our daughter when I was going through my shit and trying to get my shit together. When my daughter graduated from high school her mother turned to me and said "we did it" and I said, no you did it and I'm sorry I couldn't help you. My daughters' mom is very special to me.

I have a son with a different woman. My son's mother? Horrendous trick ass bitch. I don't hope gets hit by a bus and dies...but I wouldn't stop eating my cereal if I saw it happen. I take it back, I would do it for my son but that 911 call to the ambulance would take a loooooooong time.

 

Even a broken clock is right twice a day. The brother is obviously hurt and angry but he makes some valid points even through that anger. If he can work through that he will be a better man for it.

"Giddy up"?

That's so Village People of you

 

An addiction by its very nature is an unbalance, man. I'm not passing judgement on you I'm saying as a thinking person I now you understand that otherwise why would you indicate it has deflated to almost nothing?

Like some of the others are suggesting here, I recommend you take a look at you and getting some assistance with what you are feeling and how to best challenge it to better serve you and what you want to accomplish in life and with women. There are women out there that have been hurt, are broken and would love to meet a well balanced man who they can be vulnerable with. You can serve to be that rock for her, not her savior because I don't believe in that bullshit but a man who be the bedrock where she can feel safe to work through her shit with your strength supporting her.

But you will never find her or women like her projecting such feelings that you may be experiencing that may come across as negative to them.

Ask yourself right now if the perfect woman in your eyes comes into your life are you ready for her if her comes?

 

I wish you were right but dude is gonna go on a drive by.

Now go put on your sailor outfit and go to the ymca

 

My nuts are so very happy that you love hugging them so much. Your transgender love helps keep them warm.

Thank you.

 

Don't start with me youngin'. You know too little about me and what I seek to make judgements. You, on the other hand, have spewed volumes about who you are in just a very short time.

Did you read the rest of my post, part of which you quoted above? I omitted the fact that prior to meeting, he never picked up the phone to talk to me, only arranged a date via text. Not a fan of that at all, but decided to meet him because he was otherwise respectful. Then, when we were to meet, I thought he stood me up. I waited almost a half hour before he finally contacted me (he wasn't responding to my attempts to contact him). He was almost an hour and a half late for our date but he made no effort to contact me to let me know he was running late and only responded after I attempted to contact him. In fact, he admitted after he got there that he got a later start than anticipated. Gee, a text or call to let me know would've been nice. But I kept an open mind. Stuff happens.

As I said before, although he was a nice guy, we had little in common and we struggled to make conversation. I rarely have trouble talking with people so the fact that we couldn't seem to keep a conversation going was not a good sign to me. What's one of the most important things in a relationship? Compatibility. As nice as he was, he wasn't very good at communication, we had little to talk about and few things in common. We were not compatible. So he is a nice guy just not the right nice guy for me.

Stop making bullshit assumptions about people based on your experiences.

Oan, I had the doctor. I was married to him. He destroyed our marriage, a second marriage and his military career with his immoral ways. Just because he earns a lot of money doesn't make him a great catch.

 

Putting aside all jokes of your apparent fascination with my testicles, if you even remotely think that what you just stated is possible then we (this community) has a responsibility as citizens on this planet to try to talk him down as best possible, don't you agree?

 

I've heard of this too, but I also know of women who decide that they deserve better than being in a situation like this, and they move on. I think some women may stay in these situations when they think they can change the guy, and/or wait him out. Self worth/esteem plays a big part here, and lacking in them works to the guy's benefit. I think you simply have to see the person/situation for what it is, and if it's not to your liking... move on. Likewise, guys can do the same should they find themselves in such a situation.

I have a close friend who always call me a nice guy, and reminds me that nice guys don't always finish last. She said that because she knew I was one to quickly see my way out of a situation I didn't like. For instance... I have no problem with being a nice guy, at least fairly attentive, and generous to
a certain extent. However, I'm no one's pushover, and while I can't control how a woman acts toward me... I have total control over how I'll deal with it, and I know I deserve to be treated well.

In regards to approaching women... Admittedly, some can really be unpleasant and so on. Whatever it is... Once I sense that she's not interested, then I'll be on my way. It can suck, but the bottom line is that there's more fish out there, and hopefully the next one would work out for the best.

 

You're a piece of work. If you're 36 why does your profile say you're only 32?

Again, stop making bullshit assumptions based on your own shitty experiences.

 

With all due respect, I think you're overthinking this and generalizing too much here. I get that you may feel like you've gotten a raw deal from women, but you shouldn't assume all women have ulterior motives. It sounds like you have overall good intentions in terms of dating, but on WWBM, you're coming off as bitter, and negative overall. I'd hope that you're not doing the same when meeting women in person. I'm not saying it's all rosy out there, but they're plenty of good women with good intentions, but when you're approaching them... you have to come correct. Even if she's not interested, the good one (and they do exist) won't react harshly if you're respectful. When I say come correct/respectful... It means just that and not timid and/or acting like a chior boy.

 

PEACE...that is all