Some BM Still Intimidated by WW

you are able to make this decision ,because i just broke it down on what's he's doing. the women he is doing this to have no clue. on how he operates .
but some women find out later ,but still date / fuck him / hang out with him.
if they seen all the stuff i've seen him do ... they would stay clear of him.
the point i'm making here is a "nice guy" can use some of his tactics"
and yes sexual compliments work like a charm.

 

As I stated, what does nice guy mean?

It means dude is not saying and doing the right things to let himself be chosen.

You can be a "nice" guy but show some backbone

 

Yes, you did break it down, but if you've been dating any length of time and are looking for something serious, you start to recognize this kind of guy. I've never dated bad boys, even when I was younger. There's no appeal in being treated like an accessory.

 

Dudes don't get that "nice guy" means you aren't showing a spine.

You can be nice but you need to show you aren't a push over. Also guys need to set the tone early when they meet a woman.

 

To me, a "nice guy" is someone who is indeed a nice person but is not appealing to me in a romantic way., whether it's because of his looks, personality or he's just not interesting. I went out with a guy last summer who was respectful, reasonably attractive, with a comfortable vibe, but he was boring to me. We had little in common and struggled to make conversation. He was a nice guy but not appealing to me. But for another woman, he could be perfect.

What others describe as a nice guy, I think they really mean that he lacks confidence or has little personality or just seems a little weak. But he's not disrespectful or objectionable. He's just missing something.

 

Yeah...I kinda touch on that earlier. I stated no person is going to bat a 1000 with women. Its not going to happen. If you think you should then you are in a world of hurt.

what I'm saying is over all you can reduce your chances of being rejected but with certain approaches.

when advice I gave her to stop taking women out to dinner on the 1st few dates. there's a major reason or reasons for that. so take them out for coffee or drinks or take him on a picnic. pawn shop that is a much better thing to do.

but before you even get to that point you have to get ready before you step out the door in the day.

 

there's a difference between a "nice guy" and the nice guy I was describing earlier between the "nice guy with a backbone."

The nice guy with a backbone" will set the tone early from the many he meet you all the way over to get you in bed or even after you get you in bed. I'd put it that way but that's how gyys think. getting a woman in bed that's how we think. we usually see relationships on down the road not too far off but I'm down the road.

in any case you can be a nice guy but show some backbone set the tone early when you meet a woman and all the way through.

 

Yes

 

"Please note: This site is for the enjoyment of white women and black men who are interested in meeting or talking to one another. This site is pro-interracial dating -- specifically between white women and black men. Individuals with an alternate agenda will be banned and their posts may be removed."

You admit to being a misogynist. You hate women. With that in mind and reading the webmaster's purpose for this site (above), how does what you post support his purpose? Frustration with dating or finding the right woman is one thing but your bitter tirades are something else. Maybe this isn't the right platform for you.

 

Lol

I'm being to see that you are right....he's a troll

 

OK I'm tapping out. Dude seek help immediately. The minute you start sympathizing with mass murderers speaks volumes. You have great healthcare in your country take advantage and seek some help.

 

Pretty much. A lot of women miss the component that we still have to be charming they really don't.

 

BFE got dudes posting who haven't posted in years lol
That's why I keep saying he's not wrong his sentiment is shared on some level.

 

Lol. To a point I see what you are saying but for some dudes, let a woman lose her looks and get fat....

 

Lol. Yep. When a dude does that.....
Also we have been giving him working advice and you see he dismissed it so that says something too

Bj is still on his team though.

 

Shit in this era of independent women the same applies for men as well.
The only difference is if they leave no alimony or child support lol

 

Lol

That's changing. Halle got yanked.

It was a few other women celebs got hooked too. I need to check on it. I saw it on TV but for the most part....lol...I hear ya

 

Smh

Whatever man

 

So true.

I'm a sensitive, kind, loving and humorous guy (RestlessRita and I were just talking about that last night on the phone). I speak to, engage and give money to some houseless (I hate the term "homeless") people I have befriended; I always stop and talk to them or buy them some food and sit and eat with them when I have time or whatever. I'm going to start volunteering in some schools and explain what I do as a living to at risk youth, have volunteered at a local battered woman shelter by showing them how to perform practical self defense. Shit like that.

However,

I set the tone with women I have met; if you want to play stupid pussy games, fuck outta here with that simp shit. I don't have time to spend engaging in a females ridiculous fantasy about what she wants today which may unilaterally change tomorrow. Say what the fuck it is you want or don't. Fuck am I a mind reader?

My point is a man can be a decent person ("nice guy") and still let motherfuckers know you ain't playing that stupid pussy game bullshit. These concepts are not mutually exclusive.

Set your boundaries and be brutally fucking stringent in enforcing those boundaries.

 

Seriously, man, get help before your rage consumes you. Actually, I think it already has.