ok - hard to tell in that pic. Sounds good though. The not bitching about women factor is always a plus
Yep. Like I said dudes blame shit they can't control such as their height and race when they should work on their convo , confidence clothes and whatever . Dude whined about spending money....well dont. Take em for coffee or drinks for the first few dates. Take em on a picnic. But dont do shit like dinner .
Don't you think a lot of it could be the women they are choosing too? I do realize it takes some time and experience to figure all that out.
My comment had nothing to do with age. I would ask you, based on your other comments about hating women, why would you even bother to come on forums where men and women are talking?
Yeah, it sounds like dude had some bad experiences and is totally bitter. Nothing wrong with individual preferences, but he's gotta find a way to put that old stuff behind him, or at least not ramble on and on about it to another woman.
I was once in your shoes. And yes, I('ve been rejected. I, too, have high standards and am extremely picky. But I have learned to understand that I am living in a world I never made. Adhering to rules I've never made. That's the way of this life on planet earth. Being a better man is not about being bitter or resentful of a woman's choices. A better man has other means to succeed. A better man understands what he has to do in order to better himself. A better man walks away from ugliness around and within himself. Anger and resentment do not make a better man. I suggest that you write down a detailed list of all the good qualities that you are looking for in a woman. Then write a list of the things you don't want from a woman. Write a list of all of your qualities and all the the negativity and anger and detailed reasons why you feel that way. After you have made cross comparisons of each list, you will find the solution that might be of benefit to you.
Just cause a nerd chooses another nerd doesn't mean she will give him some. You still have to convo and show confidence. I'm talking about from the beginning to the end (no such thing when u are talking relationship)
Go back and read . Im saying you are worrying too much. Also taking them out for drinks will not kill you versus dinner If you think you should be batting a 1000 in the game then you are setting yourself up for failure . You need to calm down. People are trying to give you advice and you need to soak it up and try it.
the problem with nice guys. i don't agree with everything BrotherFromEngland says but he does have a point. nice guys don't get far with women ,even thou women say they want a nice guy.i know this....i had a roommate that was scum of the earth and he got plenty of women.....he would lie to them ,cheat ,bang hookers on the side,use them for money,harass them for suspected cheating while he is cheating ,he would control them to the point that he tells them what to wear.some will even come back to him even after knowing what he did to them. but i did learn alot from living with him in how (alot of women are wired) here's what i think ...... women sense a lack of confidence in nice guys. if you are really sweet to a woman and don't make any sexual comments or sexual compliments ,it's not going to go well.women don't like making the first moves towards sex or intimacy .second thing you gotta do is treat them like they are all in line waiting to date you.my roommate treated these women like objects (you don't have to do that) . i say .....show'em the nice guy you are, be a genuine person who cares .....then make sexual comments or compliments , then make sexual advances ....if they don't respond....NEXT (COPY moves from the bad boys and drop them like a hot potato) you can not dwell on one woman ,women have to know you have options and you don't need to be with them.my roommate would wear all these designer clothes ,have business cards ,acting like a big shot (he wasn't) he's a salesman at a clothing store.but women thought he was the shit ,how he carried himself.if he met a girl , he'd be having sex with her in 3 days,or else he would move on.it was really crazy what he was doing ,but he was doing it.
This may be the way it is, but I just can't relate to it. I don't date the bad boys or the flashy guys. While I'm not drawn to the guy who whines that he's lonely and depressed, I don't like the guy who has a list of options and I'm just a number. Which seems to be the rule rather than the exception. And I'm not impressed with guys who lead with sexual comments or intentions. I will nip that in the bud pretty quick. I want to be more than someone's bed buddy for a night or 3.
