Some BM Still Intimidated by WW

Any hobbies?

 

What game were you hooked up with? Jenga? Negro lol

 

Often times when things are not working in the ways we want or hope, it's a good idea to take a good honest look at what we are doing and how we are approaching things. Then take a look at those who have whatever it is we are wanting and find out what it was they did to succeed and sustain that success.

Sortof goes back to the other conversations about who to ask advice from.

There is the saying: You either have what you want, or all the reasons why not.

There will always be plenty of excuses for why people do not have whatever it is they wish they had.

 

Sigh. U would fuck up a wet dream.
Focus negroe focus.

Lol

I'm trying to let dude see that everyone has to learn.

Once those people told me some basic shit....things took off. I learned most shit on my own but once they told me...damn it was awesome. I did just fine. Not great but I did damb good.

Now focus.

 

I understand and I appreciate that desire to mentor. (I don't think he's much younger than you, though.) But it's very hard to get through to someone that's that angry. If he is frustrated and seeking advice and just venting about his experiences, that's one thing. But I hear a lot of hostility.

I met a man a few years older than him that had that same vibe but he was angry at BW. Found comfort in befriending a stable full of white mares and he would whine and complain to us all, full of bitterness. I eventually put him out to pasture. One of the most exhausting friendships I'd ever experienced. I couldn't imagine trying to date him.

 

Damn let me write that down. That's a cool statement

 

That kind of relationship will drain you

 

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For real, BFE women don't like the anger thing man and you sound very angry. Not saying you don't have a right to be frustrated because I understand that. I even understand the anger but if it ain't serving you and keeps women away from you it may benefit you to look at how you can better manage it.

 

People will only change when they truly want to change. Usually those who want things to be different will seek out a mentor who is successful in the area they need help in, rather than those who will just continue to feed their dysfunction.

 

So true. If he's not willing to look at himself and improve then........

He needs to look at it. All the women dissing him? Then its him that needs to change his game.

 

Girl if you don't go somewhere with that hippy nonsense lol
Kidding I agree to an extent but the big challenge of being a man is that A LOT of what you are told doesn't match up with reality. And most people would rather dismiss you or make fun of you even if they're struggling too. We don't really have safe spaces to be nurtured outside of the military or sports ironically.

 

Yeah it's definitely an obstactle but he can get pass it. I've been there and I get it like I said he's not wrong but his next step should be what can I do to make myself happy and focus on that 24/7

 

Well if dudes actually sit and talk then.....but negroes bull shit too much. They act as though you suppose to come out the womb with game. It doesn't work that way. Even Michael Jordan had to be taught

 

LOL! Well you know...I've lived in California for a very long time now...what can I say?!

Come on though....there are some really amazing men out there who are really great role models and mentors.

A huge part of it all is getting out of their own way. Nothing will change if until it is recognized that there is a need and desire to change.

 

The term game keeps throwing me sorry. I know you're from a different era but every time I hear it I think pick up artist shit. I agree though people have to be willing to go through a little discomfort to get what they want that lesson is being lost these days.

 

Indeed. I think most men have been there because there are so many trick ass women out here. Now, I have no anger, I do get frustrated from time to time but not angry. Don't want to flow my way, OK. Later. There are women that will and know how to stay in their lane. Had to kiss a lot of frogs first...but at least I didn't have to exchange credit card info to have a woman talk to me ...like goodlove does lol

Sorry, the holy spirit moved me to say that LMAO

 

Do you know why its called "game"? Or at least one reason

 

Uhh son of turtle get to stepping.

Lol

 

It would be great if you could help him. You can really feel his anger which is probably coming from a great deal of pain.

 

Bfe...before you step out. Get suited and booted.
Can't walk around looking like a guy from duck dynasty or you about to break dance or something

For me I love dark clothes. Dark color shirt and dark pants ... Slacks or something of the like. But that's me.