Should You Ever Take Womens Advice On How To Get Women ?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by 4north1side2, Dec 12, 2015.

  1. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    And I say women contribute to that shit too
    If your intention is to hook up too then stop nit picking and looking for reasons to make it harder than it has to be. This shit isn't a scripted movie where one person has to sweep you off your feet. If your goal is satisfication why leave it up to the other person?
     
  2. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    Key word "relationship" coaches.

    This thread is about getting women.

    Teach some of the men here. Prove us wrong.

    I'll wait.
     
  3. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    I have no advice on how to pick up women for sex and there's no grown man that needs that advice. Sex can be found anywhere. Because if you're not getting her for a possible relationship, then the only other reason you're getting her is for sex.

    Btw, relationship coaches give advice on all kinds of interactions from hookups to marriage.
     
  4. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    You are wrong. There are plenty of men that have posted here stating that they need advice on how to get women for sex. Some of the men that posted here even said they are virgins. Getting laid doesn't come easy for a lot of men.

    Plenty of men here have given advice on getting laid.

    You have no idea what you are talking about. Thanks for admitting that you have no advice.

    Men can give advice to other men about getting laid without having to be a specialist or making it a full time job.
    It's called experience. That's what this thread is about.

    You don''t understand the difference between getting and keeping a woman, I'm done. Lol
     
  5. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Good. Stay done with me, ok?
     
  6. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    Lmao. This is a message board. You typically long in to disagree, and now you get an attitude because YOU don't know what you're talking about.

    If you don't want to see my posts how about YOU take responsibility and use the ignore function. Easy day.
     
  7. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    A woman taking responsibility is a pipe dream sir. Seriously think how often and when the last time you heard a woman sincerely apologize for anything. Its ALWAYS someone else's fault.
     
  8. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Dude, I don't quote things you post unless it's directed to me. And the only reason you quote me any more is to mock or ridicule me and for no good reason that I'm aware. I don't do that to you unless you provoke it.
     
  9. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    TDK, that's pure bullshit and you know it Those kinds of blanket statements, particularly about women, are the reason I pick on you.
     
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  10. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    I don't know you, yet you take things personal. Lol. Hilarious

    Just refuse to put me on ignore and keep blaming me if that works better. Lol
     
  11. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    There's women and then there's fucktards. I believe you're referencing the latter.

    There are plenty of male fucktards too, but I try not to lump them in the same group that I use to classify men like you, since, Loki, etc. I think walking around with those kinds of negative generalizations about the opposite sex can really put a damper on who you subconsciously invite into your life. Positivity breeds positivity. Unfortunately I believe the opposite is true as well.
     
  12. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Yeah . also a person needs to recognize a sponge and get them out
     
  13. andreboba

    andreboba Well-Known Member

    Well, in the past I've gotten advice from women on clothes, on how to be more outwardly confident, how finding my OWN interests instead of being preoccupied with others is what makes a person interesting, how to listen and not just zone out completely when a woman is talking about something close to her heart, how not to be sexually aggressive with a woman all the time and let her give the cues, and how women like it when you plan and schedule special moments for them so they feel like they are #1 in your world.


    Women may not be skilled at telling men how to pick up chicks, but a woman can give you insight into the thought process of women.

    Maybe one woman can't give you all the answers, but if you listen and observe, female friends can give you tips on how to be a better man.

    Most dudes who have decent success with bedding multiple women have some insight into the psychology of women.

    And to get that, you need experience with women, many times non sexual.
     
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  14. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    It's cultural kid. We don't really hold women responsible as a culture we "support" them. We never hols their feet to the fire and demand that they acknowledge how they contribute to their own unhappiness usually it's all the fault of men everywhere.
    When a guy can't find a mate or the things that make him happy the general advice is man up be confident go out there and get it.
    For women it's usually place it on the shoulders of others. Of course not in every single instant but more often than not.
    I have no ill will towards the opposite sex but the more I pay attention the more I see how it's been decades of reinforced bs.
    Have you ever watched Disney movies from when we were kids as an adult. So much of that shit teaches girls that happiness comes from meeting the right man and then it all falls into the place no matter your stupid decisions you will one day be saved.
    Of course things are getting better ie Brave Frozen etc bit there's a whole generation who took their cues from media and entertainment and the overwhelming message wasn't one that taught decency honor or integrity.
     
  15. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Good point. Knowing how to carry a convo doesn't mean you are always talking:smt058
     
  16. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    As usual, well said.
     
  17. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    I believe in this fully. If you're a negative person who spends most of their time being negative people can pick up on that and that's just about the quickest way to push people away from you.
     
  18. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    So calling things what they are is negativity? If I said there's a gun culture most Americans don't want to address am I telling the truth or am I being negative?
     
  19. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Not that I put TDK in the fucktard category, but not knowing him like you do and having the history we have, I can't put him in the same category as Since and Loki and several others that I have a great deal of respect for. I'm curious - would TDK make the same statement about women off the forum in a conversation with you?
     
  20. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    I have no interest in sugar coating things like Loki and Since. Being coy is for business and a professional life. I know to them it's being pleasant and polite more power to them.
    I make those statements anywhere outside of work where these type of conversations never come up.
    What I usually say is offensive to you because you live in a bubble of you and your friends as the vast majority of people do. We are myopic exclusionary creatures, if I don't see it then it doesn't happen kind of people.
    If say men over 6'2 are more favorable then men under 6'2 you may say no I don't see that because that has nothing to do with your preference but data and the real live accounts of other men say something else. Same as if I said single divorced mothers seem to have lots of choices dating wise since I personally don't see any that lack dating opportunities. Different lives different perspectives.
     

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