what do they do to turn you off?

OMG nooooo. Who in their right mind thinks that's attractive?? I'm not a big jewelry-on-men fan anyways but someone outfitted in gold like that...I couldn't take him seriously, ever. At all lol.

:smt043

 

"How'd he take a shit wearing all that gold?"

 

Me too. I grew up on that movie! "One. Rib."

 

It was great

 

Being needy is a huge turnoff for me. I don't want to be the only thing on a woman's mind. Hell, I don't even want to be in her top five.

 

That.....it also scares me.

 

Yes...being needy/possessive is a huge turn off for me. I mean, I'd like to be "needed and wanted" by a man, but not the only thing he thinks about. That's where "stalker tendencies" come in...lol.

 

Women who use the nasty ass public restrooms in McDonald's and the likes in major cities downtown areas

 

Spit in public, eat/talk with their mouth open, cutting me off mid sentence, can't freak like a pornstar.

 

Hangs out with friends too much, I don't wanna feel like the third wheel in my own relationship.

Materialistic

Too family/ culture oriented, I'm not going to kiss another man on the lips I don't care about your family traditions.

 

I feel u

 

Amen!

Sadly for me, I was raised in a family where it's practically considered offensive to be anything but defeatist. It's something that I fight against in my own psyche to this day.

Problems have solutions. People who only harp on the problems without suggesting solutions are just soaking everyone around them in a pessimistic worldview...defeat becomes self-fulfilling that way.

Other turnoffs --

- know everything + curious about nothing + sound just like everybody else... (that combo is boring as hell...)

- giant ego + deep insecurities (means I gotta walk on eggshells... too many topics are off limits... I can't take that!)

- long toenails ('nuff said.)

- always late, can never keep to plan... (ghetto-ass like that, no thanks)

 

That last one though, you're obviously an American, a jew or muslim.

 

Taking too many selfies.

 

Where to begin ?

Women who like to come on a nun flex. You know the type women who say sh*t like "I have not had a relationship in five years" they say it as if the they have not had any d*ck in five years.

Women who expect men to do EVERYTHING and they do NOTHING. The man has to call, text, arrange the date, make the first move, then call after the date and these sl*ts are just along for the ride.

Women who are over-rate there looks. Women are five's but have the attitude of a dime.

Women who never talk to men honestly, especially when it comes to rejection.

Women who spend the date, telling you how bad all the men who they have f*cked have treated them. There are men who they have spread their legs 4, they have bent over the table 4, they have travelled to see. You worthless sl*t don't you get it ? That we have no sympathy and that we want to be that guy who is f*cking you b*tch.

 

Airheads.