what do they do to turn you off?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, Jun 14, 2015.

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  1. Ambrosya

    Ambrosya New Member

    Do...not sure ...

    Have : Toenail fungus;

    Uncircumcised P


    >>>> turn off guaranteed
     
    Ambrosya, Jun 15, 2015
    #21
  2. K

    K Well-Known Member

    a man with long finger nails

    or toe nails

    ew
     
    K, Jun 19, 2015
    #22
  3. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Got get the boogers
     
    goodlove, Jun 19, 2015
    #23
  4. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    Yes men turn me off. I need you to have your own opinions.
     
    RaiderLL, Jun 19, 2015
    #24
  5. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    I said no woman!!!!!
     
    goodlove, Jun 19, 2015
    #25
  6. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    Lol right?? Love me someone who can stand up against me! Otherwise you'll end up friend zoned in lightening speed.
     
    RaiderLL, Jun 19, 2015
    #26
  7. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Lol.....
     
    goodlove, Jun 19, 2015
    #27
  8. K

    K Well-Known Member

    That's too bad - have you tried it?
     
    K, Jun 19, 2015
    #28
  9. K

    K Well-Known Member

    lovely
     
    K, Jun 19, 2015
    #29
  10. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Jealous/possessive/controlling/clingy

    Bad attitude, rude, disrespectful, obnoxious, argumentative, always having to be right, turns everything into a stupid power struggle

    Smoking

    Long nails...fingers & toes. Dirty nails too.

    Doesn't keep his word

    Lack of common sense

    Poor hygiene

    Victim, martyr, defeatist mentalities

    Arrogance, showing off

    Ass kissers (or as Raider put it "yes men")

    Passive aggressive behavior
     
    Tamstrong, Jun 19, 2015
    #30
  11. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    I'm usually not a mean person but nothing will make me go off on a person quicker than this. Especially men.
     
    RaiderLL, Jun 19, 2015
    #31
  12. Cherok33

    Cherok33 Well-Known Member

    All great thus far

    Adding stalker tendencies and excessive, unsolicited half naked borderline naked selfies

    Full blown Monty unsolicited selfies
     
    Cherok33, Jun 20, 2015
    #32
  13. K

    K Well-Known Member

    men with really feminine voices (or mannerisms)
     
    K, Jun 20, 2015
    #33
  14. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    But what if you have a really nice ass? Is it okay to kiss it then?
     
    Since1980, Jun 20, 2015
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  15. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    I am not a fan of gold teeth. Or black women with blonde hair. It just doesn't work for me.

    When it comes to personality, neediness/clinginess is a major turnoff. So is being passive aggressive. Being overly critical of other people and talking behind their backs is a major red flag, especially if it's someone that she considers a friend.
     
    Since1980, Jun 20, 2015
    #35
  16. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Im with u on all this
     
    goodlove, Jun 20, 2015
    #36
  17. DudeNY12

    DudeNY12 Well-Known Member

    Absolutely - I totally agree.
     
    DudeNY12, Jun 22, 2015
    #37
  18. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I feel you. I have no patience for that shit either.


    Yep. These too.



    That's an entirely different kind of ass kissing, babe. :smt047



    Gold teeth or grillz are definitely not a good look.

    I also don't like it when a man piles on a bunch of jewelry. If a man likes to wear it, he should keep it simple.

    I used to have this dude hitting on me all the time at work back in the day who everyone referred to as 'Hollywood' because of all the bling he covered himself in. He had what looked like a full set of gold teeth, giant stud earrings, a ring on every finger, bulky chain around his neck, a big watch, several bracelets on his wrist, and a giant golden belt buckle. You couldn't look directly at him without wearing shades (or without wincing). It was crazy. I ran into him at the grocery store a few weeks ago almost jewelry free and didn't realize it was him until he spoke to me. He even got rid of the gold teeth...his teeth were a blinding shade of white though. lol
     
    Last edited: Jun 23, 2015
    Tamstrong, Jun 22, 2015
    #38
  19. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Sagging pants

    Too much cologne
     
    Tamstrong, Jun 22, 2015
    #39
  20. K

    K Well-Known Member

    Yep ...just because it's good doesn't mean you should put more on. Cologne is meant to be intimate. You should be within their personal space to smell them.
     
    K, Jun 23, 2015
    #40
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